2007-03-06 03:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by rdncpr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old are the kids? Is it their father, or some one else? Living with the kids? You ask a really good question, but you know the answers, thanks for the 2 pts.
2007-03-06 03:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get married again your kids will have to except your choice of doing this. It's not up to the kids what you do with your life. There is love for adults and there is different love for your kids. Kids however can resent the fact that you are marrying someone and cause turmoil in the relationship. You need to sit the kids down and explain what and why your getting married to this other person. They need to respect your choice because you are the adults here. So many adults make the mistake of letting kids run their lives. Kids these days need to know there places in life and except what parents do whether they like it or not. Hope this helps! Cocoa
2007-03-06 12:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a great role model you are for your kids. You are shacking up with some guy! If they don't like it I applaud them and am shocked they managed to come away frome being raised by you with some sort of moral foundation.
2007-03-06 12:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by conservamommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've always told my son, he has to approve of the man I marry, if I ever re-marry that is! If he doesn't approve of him or doesn't like him, then it just wouldn't work out. Your children come first. They, like me, probably do not think it's appropriate that you're living with your partner.
2007-03-06 11:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are going to make your marriage a living hell. If they don't like it, there is probably a reason. Think about your children too!
2007-03-06 11:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your new spouse is good to your kids, than they'll get used to it. Make sure you keep the lines of communication open.
2007-03-06 11:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by E 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't let your kids get jealous and ruin everyhitn gin their self-centered way. You need to know how much of it is their being kids, and how much is actually bad for them.
2007-03-06 11:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are no details to your question, but one thing I can tell you is children come first. As a parent you need to do what is best for your children not yourself.
2007-03-06 11:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by QT 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋