I just recently left my husband, and discovered I still had feelings for my ex, which is a male as well. But, lately I have been looking at females the same way I do males...I am confused...should I try it and see what it's like or just try to ignore it? Help please.
2007-03-06 03:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have been disappointed in men. Try a woman, see what it does. You will never know if you don't try.
2007-03-06 03:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been feeling the same way lately. I've soured up on men after a bunch of bad relationships, and now I find myself more and more attracted to women. I started hanging out in "girls only" nightclubs, dancing and getting closer to women. I haven't actually been with a woman yet, but the closer I get, the more it feels like it's the right thing. Whether it's sexual experimentation you seek, or just a different type of emotional bond, I definitely think it would be a good thing to do for yourself. Good luck!
2007-03-06 15:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by New C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this and logic. Once you do it and if you don't like what you did, then how can you take it back? Think as well if you live long enough, you and lovers will get old and wrinkles, is it the sex you want or a love affair with women, do not get those confused and keep a value of your being.
2007-03-06 11:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would def try it. If the feelings are there it has to be something, and something def worth figuring out. Right now would be a perfect time since your not with your husband so no one can be hurt. Good luck!
2007-03-06 12:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by dangerously_inlove_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bi gives you a greater chance of having a date on Saturday night. Hey, try it and see what you think. Want my phone number?
2007-03-06 12:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot honey . If you feel good about it by all means go ahead. In the meantime you should experiment a little
2007-03-06 15:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by rowell2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest opening your options to include relationships with women. You don't have to be exclusive to either when it comes to dating. As for falling for your ex again, don't go for it unless you two are really set on fixing what broke the marriage to begin with.
2007-03-06 11:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lot of stuff is going on. Wait until you feel calmer. Then see if you still want to.
2007-03-06 11:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lolipop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, I have a lesbian sister, and I don't mind her. So I think that you should try everything once just to see if you like it. Have fun experimenting.
2007-03-06 11:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not encouraged.
2007-03-06 12:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋