my dugthers keep on fiting and i dont see that thay love each other thay dont get along very nice how should i deal with them?
2007-03-06 03:28:07 · 19 answers · asked by blue bird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't make them care and love each other. They have to do it themselves. If they are teenagers, there is nothing you can do about it. When they become adults, they will love and care about each other more. I promise you that.
2007-03-06 09:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the age difference here is. But I can tell ya with my sister and I (there is 10 years diff), we fought alot when she got old enough. She was taking things outta my room without asking, butting into conversations, etc. It's a sister thing, but it's annoying to the other one. Now that we are older, we are pretty close. (Even though, she will still take stuff once in awhile and not tell ya, she is getting better at asking first). My brother and I had 14 months difference and we were the same. Fighting etc but we get along great now. They love eachother although you just don't see it right now. Believe me, if somoene says something about one of them to the other, they WILL stick up for the other one even if they can't stand eachother at the time. They are family and they know it deep down. It just takes time for them to grow up and realize that one day, they will really need eachother. Give them some time and just try to guide them as best as you can and understand they aren't going to always get along.
2007-03-06 11:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are they?
a few years ago I used to produce a great fiber craft which used very sharp needles - a family told me their kids never saw eye to eye and always used to fight.
they oredered the kit with two needles and had both kids work on it at the same time -
surprise - no more fighting!!
the kids summed it up best, when they said whats the point of fighting with someone who ALSO has sharp weapon in their hand.
and when they were done they wer so proud of their art work they did together.
I've sold the business but can still get you a kit ($15) send me an email if oyu are interested (click on my avasar)
2007-03-06 11:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what that is like....I am not young, my sister and I are 3 yrs apart and have always fought....always. I would like to give you some sage advice but sometimes they just don't get along. We love each other, but really don't like each other....my kids were not the same sex and were 6 years apart and have never fought, ever.....just try really hard to not show any favoritism, and I am not saying you do it's just that I feel like my parents did and that is most likely the root to all this, and both being girls and only 3 yrs. apart.....I would do anything for her if she needed me but hang out willingly....not so much...good luck to you....I know we still drive my parents nuts!!!!
2007-03-06 11:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are still young, instill in them that they must respect eachother and that they must watch out for each other more than anybody else in the world. My mother taught me and my siblings this while we were young. We did fight alot, but we still protected eachother from outside harm. and now, we still argue a bit, but we all are there for eachother 100% of the time, no questions asked.
2007-03-06 11:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by happyfarah88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychologically, in order for two daughters to love each other, especially when approaching each other aggressively, is to allow them to continue their hatred for each other. By nature, this will come to an end.
Have a great day.
2007-03-06 11:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try talking to each of them individually and get to know one another better, and then go out on a girls night and when you get back talk with them....make sure you do something nice like dinner and then shopping.....or give them jewelry or something, i am sorry that they dont get along very well, my prayers are with you
<3 elli s.
2007-03-06 11:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Elli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce them to a situation where they have to work together to meet some goal. It will help them bond and learn how to be a team instead of on opposing sides.
2007-03-06 11:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will eventually grow out of it. My daughters are 2 and 4 and fight all day long.
2007-03-06 11:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a lot of love and patience. Remind them that they may need one another some day. Aside from that, good luck...
2007-03-06 11:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Paula S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋