I just discovered the big "O" now I'm 24 and I got my first one like early last year and then not no more til last night..... Now I realized how I got and it was the same as before..... now another thing I been having sex since I was 11 but never got 1.. My question is, now that I know what It takes to get it. When it comes how do I control it... Its like I get real tingly and weak and then cant control my pace no more.... any suggestions??
2007-03-06 03:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by msp2k6 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Girl just enjoy it.
2007-03-06 03:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by happyfarah88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you want to control it for? Orgasms are pleasurable and shouldn't be controlled. If you try to control it, it probably wouldn't be as good as it could be. When you feel one coming just let it flow. Lay back and enjoy the waves of pleasure rippling through your body. Don't worry about what you look like or sound like while you're in the middle of a great orgasm. If a guy gives it to you then be satisified in the thought that he's quietly congratulating himself for giving it to you. A lot of girls have problems orgasming during sex. So just enjoy and have fun!
2007-03-06 11:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like yourself I started having sex at a young age and didn't have either orgasm until I was about your age. Controlling it i find is near impossible. For maximum pleasure I have to be in control. I ride on top and control things that way. Most times now I do reach orgasm. Also for maximum impact of a orgasm I like to let it build. Lots and lots of foreplay and generally whatever feels good. I bring myself to the brink without going off and do that a few times. The orgasm I do experince is mindblowing. Have fun and enjoy.
2007-03-06 11:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is to just let yourself go. Just let yourself be in the moment. Don't worry about controlling it. And wow, 11 was really young to be having sex, but you're an adult now so you know what's wrong or right. Sorry I didn't mean to get off track.
2007-03-06 11:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by pawt72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could look into tantric sex. it's the practice of "feeling" the orgasm without actually having the full thing...like keeping it going for hours (i guess). or you could just set your next goal: learning to have multiples.
not controlling your pace is what makes it feel so good. your body gets caught up in a positive feedback loop (waves and waves). anyway, interestingly, the same hormones that help labor progress are also involved in orgasm...have fun!
2007-03-06 11:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sue O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with it baby! Ride the ride and enjoy it for all it's worth. You shouldn't repress your orgassmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
2007-03-06 11:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by M T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to control it count yourself lucky some women never get one,
2007-03-06 11:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably controlled by a guys thrusting
2007-03-06 11:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU CAN'T CONTROL IT.ANYWAY WHY WOULD YOU WANT TOO.IT IS MUCH NICER TO LET YOURSELF GO, AND MORE FULL-FILING. JUST ENJOY THEM .
2007-03-06 11:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by aunty m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it..............over and over and over and over and over...................
2007-03-06 11:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Momofboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋