I'm sick of Men my soon to be ex-husband is such a piece of **** and I just don't want to deal with it. I mean if I have a relationship with a woman, I could have some help around the house, help with cooking cleaning whatever. I jsut think it sounds right. I mean I'd rather hang out with a woman anyhow, its just the sex part, but I could get used to it...probably. Anyway what do you think?
2007-03-06 03:12:09 · 12 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know gay people that pretend to be straight. So why couldn't I. Relationships are not about love anyway. Once everyone realized that everyone will be happier. They are about respect, trust and understanding. Its about being there for the other person. You can love someone with all your heart but that doesn't mean you should be together. That is just stupid highschool talk.
2007-03-06 09:00:41 · update #1
Oh and I asked for pros and cons please. Thanks
2007-03-06 09:01:03 · update #2
You can choose whatever you want to be. Its up to you.
2007-03-06 03:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lolipop 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Ok, there's a lot of stereotyping in there. My dad is extremely clean while my mother is a total slob. Don't date women because you think that every woman acts a certain way. And don't date women because you think there's no chance of finding a "bad apple" in the lesbian bunch. Sadly they do exist. If you're straight, stick with men or stay single.
2007-03-06 12:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU FREAKING NUTS!!! Being cheesed off at a guy does not mean you have to become a lesbian! Plenty of straight women enjoy womens company, doesnt make them gay. And to have a girlfriend to help with the housework?
Being a Lesbian means having genuine feelings towards another woman or women. Its not just some game to play, real people get hurt!
Please think before you act!
2007-03-06 11:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by jovvijo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you were born a lesbian, then yes, you should accept your natural sexual orientation. You will be much happier.
If you were not born a lesbian, it is not something you can "become."
It sounds like you want a roommate and not a partner. You could take out a personal ad for either - with different content, of course.
Good luck!
2007-03-06 11:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
People don't really become gay. You either are or you aren't. If you aren't physically attracted to women, a romantic relationship with one will never work. Go out and rent the movie "Kissing Jessica Stein". It deals with the exact same issue as you are having right now.
2007-03-06 12:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dated a girl that went both ways, but she prefers the guys plumbing better. But she liked the cuddling after that girls prefer. I had the plumbing she wanted and the cuddling that she liked, and I cook, clean, and do laundry. And I hunt, fish, watch sports. We are out here, so don't classify all guys as worthless just because you got a lazy one.
2007-03-06 11:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
lolololol thanks for making me laugh, but seriosly i don't think all men are as bad as your ex -husband. just get away from him and try to find somebody who's different, lol not different by being a woman or if you want to be with a girl go ahead, but just try finding somebody with different characteristics than him. there are messed up girls too so being an asshole isn't always about the gender:)
2007-03-06 12:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt try to become a lesbian if you cant really love another woman from what your saying i think your curious and just want to experiment
also just because your husband (ex) messed up it doesnt mean you cant find another guy to make you feel whole
2007-03-06 11:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by bb2 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
pros
1.better sex
2.clean house
3.shopping partner
Cons
1.bad sex
2.dirty house
3.shopping alone
Just because your in relationship with a girl does not mean you will have someone to help you clean. There is girls that dont like to be picking up after themselves. So dont get into something for the wrong reasons.
2007-03-06 21:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trying to change your sexual orientation because you are sick of men is just plain stupid. Go see a therapist.
2007-03-06 11:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Spyder 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
honey, you can't become a lesbian, its not something you just choose because you're tired, its a lifetime of decisions and responsibilities... You'll end up hurting somebody who probably doesn't deserve it...
2007-03-06 18:09:52 · answer #11 · answered by Fashionista 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋