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Thanks for all the answers. I should have said that I didnt cheat on him, which I guess is the most common reason for a split, but I did take him and his opinions for granted. We were supposed to marry last April but I called it off, felt trapped, been there done it before, got the divorce t-shirt! I dont think he has ever forgiven me for that but simple truth is I didnt realise that I had found 'The One' until he wasnt there anymore. I dont think it's ever too late or wrong to try again with a relationship, life's too short not take every opportunity at happiness. He's built a brick wall around himself and I cant blame him for that. My further question is, if he really isn't interested anymore, what signals can I expect from him and could this all be about revenge? Problem is that, to me, he's one in a million, a very special person and I really dont want to give up on him.

2007-03-06 03:09:08 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs Squarepants 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

12 answers

Ok...here it goes...let him know how you feel first of all..then give him time and space..he needs to think things out...and make sure your not bull shitting him again..its never too late but he might have moved on and met someone else who is willing to committ..off course it wasn't your fault you felt that way before but it wasnt his either...so just open up to him and let him know how you feel and see what happens...dont pressure dont force..and good luck dear!!

2007-03-06 03:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0 0

It sounds like there was something more to this than you are letting on. What were the reasons you decided to split? You said in your other post that neither of you wanted it to happen so why did you? If things were otherwise going well then you could have worked through it but it sounds like it was too late then so no doubt it will be far too late now. I think you should use it as a learning curve which you appear to have done but it might be too late for this relationship.

2007-03-06 11:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0 0

If someone called off marrying me I would be so hurt!! He needs time to realise that he wants you in his life and he needs space.

Once he has had that then he can make a decision, there is no point in being with someone who doesnt want to be with you no matter how much you love them!

Tell him you love him and you will never ever stop loving him and you will be there when he is ready!!

Goodluck

2007-03-09 03:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by kirsty m 3 · 0 0

Make up your mind you sick witch. You'd be lucky if the guy wants you back, which if he hasn't made it perfectly clear by now, he probably does. If he's not interested, you won't get any signals from him. I know Britney Spears isn't interested in me, and I don't expect her to call me and let me know either. She's a stupid *** anyway.

2007-03-06 15:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by joshnya68 4 · 0 0

He's pouting, and has the right to, the only thing that you can do is bring some humor into the situation, grab his hand and stick it down your pants, that ought to do the trick. Keep him laughing and he will for give you. Just don't let it happen again=)'

2007-03-06 11:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0 0

Instead of trying to be his wife/girlfriend again try being hus friend that way he can trust you again not to hurt him. GOOD LUCK!!!!

2007-03-06 11:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmyn C 1 · 0 0

you broke his heart and that was messed

he probably doesnt want to talk to you because he is afraid that you may do they same thing twice

also did you check to see if he is seeing someone else

2007-03-06 11:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by links305 5 · 1 0

don know
move on
the train has left the station

2007-03-06 11:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by willow 3 · 0 0

do some thing that he wouldnt ever see you do in a thousand years

2007-03-06 11:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

learn to bring it better in the sack

2007-03-06 11:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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