please help...my mom always has a party for me...besides im turning 18...
2007-03-06 03:01:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
Why can't you do both. Half day with mom and evening with girl..not sacrifce one for the other..good friends and family is hard to come by and they may not be around much longer. Life has a way of twisting on you...Just enjoy your time with both. No one said you had to choose
2007-03-06 03:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey...happy birthday...it's my daughter's 21st birthday that day.
We are taking her to a nice dinner and her boyfriend is joining us! Maybe you could do something like that.
Or could you do the party thing with the family, then you and your girlfriend do something after? Could you and your girlfriend celebrate Saturday night and then do a party together with your family on Sunday?
There are many possibilities and comprimises. Just remember that these milestone birthdays are big ones for us parents too!
2007-03-06 03:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Misty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go out w/ ur girlfriend cuz ur 18 which means ur a adult but if u dont want to hurt ur mom u should stay home but also invite ur girlfriend and i think u too will enjoy and happy b-day
2007-03-06 03:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Shahzadi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about a compromise? Have a party with your family Saturday night or brunch Sunday OR go out for dinner with your gf Saturday night or Sunday night. Make it clear you want to celebrate with your gf alone for dinner either Sat or Sun night. It shouldn't be that hard. "Don't worry, Be happy!" and Happy Birthday!!!
2007-03-06 03:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by curiousgeorge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do both. Invite your girlfriend over for the party then go out with her after. Happy Birthday!! Mine is the 15th
2007-03-06 03:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by tebone0315 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Invite your girlfriend over to the party, waite for things to calm down and then check with your parents first, then go out and have fun with your friends. Your young, you have plenty of time for fun.
2007-03-06 03:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Oracle Blackrose ( Pagan ) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think mom gets prority on the actual day. after all it is a big day for her as well. maybe saturday you can go out with friends to celebrate and have her over on sunday as well. happy birthday.
2007-03-06 03:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate at home with your family & girlfriend then the two of you go out afterwards.
2007-03-06 03:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
invite ur girl 2 the party, then go out with her afterwards
2007-03-06 03:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay home and invite g/f over.
2007-03-06 03:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋