okay so im a indian girl with alot going for me.attractive,independant and down to earth but im still single,im looking for the right person and sure will find someone,my parents are quite traditional and open minded and ive always thought they'd like to me to settle down with a indian guy as thats what its usually like in the asian community but my mum just told me i can marry a white guy,a mixed race guy anyone i wanted they didnt mind as long as i was happy,i think my mum really wants me to marry outside my religion as my bro and sis have married indian partners and maybe she wants our family to be a bit mixed,im so shocked as its made me think how lucky i am in a society where mostly it arranged marriges i have the choice..am i lucky or what
2007-03-06 03:00:57 · 21 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are extremely lucky.I have several friends who have had to have arranged marriages,and they are unhappy in the marriage.Your mother i am sure sees this and wants what is best for you.Just make sure you marry for the right reasons.Hats off to your mother,she loves you very much.Good luck.
2007-03-10 02:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure..it looks like you still need your parent's permission to marry ..is that really lucky?
also, you said you're "allowed" to marry a WHITE or MIXED guy? So they are letting you marry another race, but just want to make sure that the other race isn't TOO dark? That's not very open minded..you should be able to marry whomever you want whether they're black, white, red, yellow, brown, green or spotted.
2007-03-06 03:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Awww they sound really sweet and caring, you are lucky not many parents would be so open minded. Good Luck & I hope you Find a loving husband xx
2007-03-06 03:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie pie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think your parents have come to terms with the way people live now and happiness is all we want.
2007-03-06 03:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by WUSIWUG 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes your lucky! May you find the great man in life.
2007-03-06 03:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ur very lucky-go girl!
2007-03-06 03:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good on your parents for being open minded..
now get out there and fall in love with whoever you want
2007-03-06 03:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by lion of judah 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are very lucky! Look after them.
2007-03-06 03:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww good 4 you...yer your mum an dads sound lilke there damounds!!!
well i hope you find your slf a good guy an have a fab life...good luck
2007-03-07 02:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by miss shy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should count your blessings for sure. Hope you find someone to live up to your and your parents ideals.
2007-03-06 03:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋