This is the second break up and now I have no good health, thoughts and money & give up all hopes and have no interest
2007-03-06 02:48:03 · 14 answers · asked by sona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you have to stop thinking that way and start going out and have fun, everything else will fall into place.
2007-03-06 02:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, once separated, its difficult to live together. You have no aim, so you will anyway lose your health, and your money. If you give up all hopes and have no interest, you will only end up a lonely person, who if even dies, no one would turn up to give you your last respects, cos' no one would give a damn to a person they dont know, or a person who didnt care for himself anyway..so why would anyone bother...
It is you who may have to deal with this situation. And its not about a love story ending, (I did not understand when you said ''separation'' so i assume it was some one in your life), its about your health and your financial situation. I hope god has given you enough health to at least work somewhere, get enough to survive and take care of your health, and from there you'd be in a better position to discuss your love life.
2007-03-06 08:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've hit rock bottom so to cash in on a cliche, the only way is up!! You'll be fine. Join a club, start learning, summer's coming, that makes everyone feel better, hey even start gardening. Summer is the best time to get over a break up. You need friends and to meet people, think of the many ways you can do this, even if it means taking a job as a barman!! You can do it!! I did!!
2007-03-06 02:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! Just answered your question about true love. And then I find this!!!
Health, Money and everything else - is what YOU make of it. Indulge in doing something you like and love to do (I'm not talking about alcohol or smoke) DO NOT get busy to escape from yourself.
FACE it. STOP. Evaluate yourself. Please remember, love is a part of life - not life. Hindi cinema will disagree with me, but I'm not looking for Bolly wood approval. Actually, Fanaa is closer to my point. You've got to do what you've got to do for the greater good. You owe it to yourself to LIVE your life in a good way and not destroy it in the name of love. Love never destroys. (I guess I have to say I do not agree with the punch line of Fanaa)
So, if you do not want to destroy yourself; gather yourself and keep moving. Try loving without expecting to be loved in return. Give love, accept it if it comes back but dont expect it or ask for it.
Love sets you free, does not destroy you. You are not in good health - You did not take care of yourself. Not Love. No money - you got to work harder for it - Not love. Kuch Samjhe?
You've asked the question, its the first step towards a better future. I hope you'll find the courage you need to move on and find true love - it lies in giving love not getting love.
2007-03-06 03:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ahavah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you didn't have any of these before the break up either, and that is why you broke up. It gets tiresome after awhile being the one that does everything. My spouse does nothing except work and bring home money. We never get to enjoy it.
2007-03-06 03:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life.. dont worry about others. Take control of your life, just follow the flow of your life. Everyone has their own fate, you will meet the right person someday. So, cheer up and be confident in your self.
2007-03-06 03:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by syahzack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For people like you, the only solution is to get Religious and do Social Service and find meaning in life. If you can't do that either, the God Help You.
2007-03-08 05:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud cry...
cry like a child...
forgive (others and urself) and forget...
dont hold grudges and dont judge others....it ll only eat up ur soul's energy.
dont blame...dont feel jealous....
ppl who blame do not want to take responsibility
ppl who r jealous ve low confidence.
Fate is the greatest asrologer,do something in ur life so that wen Fate looks down to u, he shud feel cheated.
Dont expect happiness from relationships....relationship is a kind of attachment and all kind of attachments r temporary, hence the pleasure related to them r temporary too.Therefore, relationships r bound to give u -ve emotions....
Learn from ur actions(failures/mistakes)
2007-03-06 05:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by understanding_bf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counceling.
there's more relationships out there. sometimes it's funner just being single. don't just seperate, divorce. So you can get yourself straight and together and continue on to the next experience in this life time.
2007-03-06 03:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up man life goes on...
2007-03-06 02:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋