Several months ago I checked the history on my home computer to see what my boyfriend has been doing all day when he was supposed to be looking for work. It showed searches and visits to websites on She-Males and trannies. Also, when we first started dating he had a porn in his closet that was titled BiFriends and the "woman" on the cover clearly wasnt...lol. He said he hid it because he bought it thinking it was women who were bi and after he played he realized then it was a tranny movie. I was concerned but after last night, I am even more worried. He had several She-Male porn DVD's hidden in the trunk of his car. Should I be worried that he could be gay or at least bi? I want to ask him about it but I am afraid of offending him. Any advice?
2007-03-06 02:30:35 · 3 answers · asked by Ismyguygay 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've actually heard this question asked to sex therapists before, and I hope that I respond similarly. Men are naturally more inclined and fascinated by penises. They don't necessarily want to see another one, but they want to compare and that sort of thing. By the "actors" being transexuals, they're still "women" but they also get that penis factor.
I'm not sure that that includes all the details, but it's roughly what the response was. It's relatively normal for this to be of interest to men.
2007-03-06 07:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Phillip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he faithful and loving towards you? If yes, then don't worry about it. Some are regarding sexual attraction towards transpeople to be its own sexuality, so I guess he could in a certain way be kinda bi. maybe ask him about it if things get serious just to get a better understanding of the person you're in a relationship with. Other than that don't worry about it.
2007-03-06 12:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may very well be bi. buy yourself a strapon and see what he thinks ;-)
-Jill
2007-03-06 14:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by jack_and_jill420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋