i dated my best friend who is 28 for a year. we were best friends 4 a whole year a year b4 that. after she dumped me anytime i would get interested n another girl she'd tell me to *** over to her apt 4 sex. that was november now shes seeing some 35 yr old guy who rides a harley and i see her maybe once a week. she says i'm still her best friend & she's moving to Atlanta GA this year sometime & she says she'll miss me terribly when she leaves. anytime i date a girl she is so critical of her, but anytime i say anything about harley guy she gets defensive. she never hardly calls me anymore, & i love her so much as a friend, & she says she loves me, as a friend, but i get the feeling she's just tryin 2 keep me under her thumb so she can manipulate me. all of my friends tell me she's manipulative. how do i find out if she's a manipulator &trying to keep me under her thumb or if she's REALLY my best friend? I REALLY need good advice here. It seems she never has time for me, am I being used?
2007-03-06 02:18:36 · 4 answers · asked by chrissexysmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she's manipulating you, she is not your best friend if she were then she would have respect for you and your dating choices not criticizing the people who you chose to date while she is gets to date whoever she chooses and would rather not hear your input about anything a true friend would be there for you and try to maintain a friendship while listening to what you have to say instead of only letting her voice be heard, get rid of her and find a new friend....
2007-03-09 15:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to like her as a friend anyway just because you like her as a friend and that's not changing despite all the things she does. So just accept it. But yes, she is a manipulator and you should tune her out and not expect anything more than the usual manipulative crap. Just enjoy the friendship and at the same time live a life filled with possibilities - date a lot! It's hard to be used by someone unless you let them.
2007-03-09 19:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break away from this girl. She is using you and when she is done she well kick you to the curb and never look back.
2007-03-06 02:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MANIPULATOR !!!!!!!!!!!
Leave her, forget her, and don't look back.
2007-03-06 05:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by shfincter S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋