Can someone explain to me what might be on her mind? Or what she may be thinking? Thanks?

Question

I just dont get it. She broke up with me because she felt that she wasn't ready for another relationship and that she has to focus with college. I respected her decision

We have class together. She has been ignoring for the first two weeks then started talking again. Somehow, I feel like she doesn't respect me. Everytime she would always talk to our friend and leave me out of the conversation. Even when we would do work together, she would only come to me when she has to

Recently she started being cold again and I got tired of it so i ignored her for that day. she asked me what was wrong and I confronted her about it and that I didnt care anymore. she got defensive and now we dont really talk. She did apologize about about her behaviour and treatment online though, and thats about it.

She is not the type that likes to play games but is somewhat shy and not expressive. I know she isnt a bad person.

Whats going through her mind? How should I be around her now? Do I talk to her?

Answer 1

You recently broke up, so, feelings are still a bit tender on both sides. I don't know if there is anyone that can comfortably handle being around someone they were recently romantically involved with, and not be a little awkward about it. I would assume that she is still trying to sort out her feelings.

If I were you, I would just act as positively "normal" and friendly about the whole thing. Evidently there was a reason she was attracted to you in the first place. Don't lose that now by being somebody different. Rise above whatever hurt and bitterness may occasionally come up in your feelings about the whole thing. She will respect you much more for that and for not making her feel in any way guilty about her decision.

If there is a chance for you to reunite, it will occur much easier if you behave positively, rather than negatively. Feeling hurt and confused ir normal, you are entitled. But, don't let what happened rob you of being happy on a daily basis.

If in the end it does not work out that you reunite, you will be ultimately much more proud of yourself that you did not let what happened rob you of your joy and peace.

I once worked with a man I had dated. After we broke up it was SO hard to see him everyday, but even if I had to bite my tongue, I acted cool, calm and happy. We did not get back together, but believe me, I was so happy I didn't act negatively about the whole thing.

Be yourself, be happy and positive, spend time with happy encouraging people, be kind to her when needed. You will be fine, trust me.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

What I think you should do is not confront her again.. just let her 'be' and give her time. If she apologized then she obviously knows that she was wrong for being cold to you or what not. Which means she was well aware of it and might be doing it in defense. Maybe she does like you and is just scared. Since she is shy and not expressive, then it may explain why she ignores you in class.. maybe she doesn't want to face the truth?

Answer 4

Thank God for a young woman with ambition and drive. I can see why you care about her. She probably doesn't know if she can balance what is important now, and that's her own development, with the distraction of a relationship. Career women know we have to remain clear and focused. Men are used to this but this generation of women is sure they will not be left home to bury their potential. Older women have forged the path for them and you must not get in her way.

If you can offer her a friendship that respects her ambition as much as yours maybe she will find time for you. But if she cannot do that, please respect her and give her the space she needs. She has a right to a good education and a chance for self-actualization just as surely as you do. Release her. Then be her friend and not her distraction. @8-)

Answer 5

From a female's point a view, if a girl really likes a guy, we wouldn't use the excuse that we have to focus on school unless it was a long distance relationship. It sounds like she's just not ready for a relationship and you definitely don't want to get strung along, so I would say avoid her and try to stay away from her. It will just make it harder for yourself if you continue talking to her.

Answer 6

It sounds like she was trying to distance herself from you so she could focus on her studies which is why she broke up with you. It is tough to be around someone you care about but know you should be focusing your thoughts on something for your future. Try to be friends with her without expecting too much. Let her focus on her studies and get her mind where she is at a comfortable place with you. Time will make things easier.Don't take it too personally. I think she is trying to do "the right thing" for herself right now.

Answer 7

It's difficult to know how to behave around someone you were once intimate with and with whom you were emotionally involved. It sounds like she was trying to give herself a break. When she felt a little better about things, she warmed up - but maybe she sensed something from you...an awkwardness? You see how this can be difficult?

Try not to make too much of things. Sooner or later you'll both fall into a more natural behavior around one another.

Answer 8

Maybe she has herpes and doesnt know who gave it to her....maybe she had an abortion because she could not remember how may men she slept with at that party 6 months ago.....Since she is not going to seriously tell you, who cares what is going on in her mind...seriously, one thing you do know is that it is NOT you!
Move on, life is too short for you to devote another second to the *@&^%$!

You deserve better.
Furthermore, I would bet that if there is someone else that you show an interest to in that class, she will be on you like stink to poop....
On your huge campus, certainly there is ONE other girl that is more worthy of your attention, one that will talk directly to you and wont give you the cold shoulder whenever things arent going well in her other world(s).

Answer 9

It sounds like she feels awkward chatting with you presently that she's chosen to cut up with you. i imagine you want to furnish her some area, yet be polite if she needs to talk. it truly is continuously somewhat confusing to be round someone you broke up with. i wager if she needs to concentration on college, the perfect issue you are able to do is to help her with classification artwork if she needs it. How does she reply once you ask her something about artwork you're doing?

Answer 10

if u r still friends..yes, talk, but keep in mind that women have mysterious ways.if she didn't pay any attention to u maybe she still wants to keep u interested..or maybe she is just not so sure bout her feelings and wants to c if she can keep away from u..best u guys just talk it over.tell her u just want to be friends..or more if u do..and c what she says.lots of luck!