2007-03-06 01:48:39 · 31 answers · asked by Mike . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And I don't mind her going through my stuff
2007-03-06 02:59:18 · update #1
Sure, why not. I could care less if my husband wanted to check my phone. We use each others phone on occasion as well. Its really no big deal.
2007-03-06 04:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very clear that you don't trust your wife. If you don't think she's cheated on you, then you shouldn't be checking her calls on her cell phone. Maybe you are an insecure person & that's what's causing you to snoop. If that's the case, you'll end up on the short end of the stick. Sometimes guys are the ones who are cheating, so they think their mate is too. Could that be the case with you? Not accusing, just asking.
2007-03-06 09:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off why not discuss it with her and ask if she minds you looking, second make sure to offer up your cell to her as well, only fair right? Second, if you don't feel she is doing anything then why do you feel the need to check? Have you done something and feel guilty?
2007-03-06 09:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a family account - yes it is ok. You and your wife are a team and there should be no secrets so looking at the phone log shouldn't be an issue
2007-03-06 10:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with my fiance (4 days!) going through anything of mine...I won't keep secrets from him (except for birthday surprises, etc.). The big question is, what kind of relationship do you have?
2007-03-06 09:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to go through anyone's personal things. Would you want people snooping thru your stuff? If you can't trust her, ask her point blank. If you don't like her answers, govern yourself accordingly. But don't snoop through her stuff. that's just way wrong and so uncool.
2007-03-06 09:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think she's messing around, why are you going through her cell?
2007-03-06 09:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i go through my hubby's cell all the time, as long as she doesn't mind (and if she has nothing to hide she shouldn't) then why not. but do ask her and make sure she knows that you do it on a daily basis.
2007-03-06 09:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by mathma2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who pays the phone bills? If you are, you can check the incoming and outgoing calls on the statement. If she catches you checking her saved numbers on her phone, she would begin to think you don't trust her. My advice is to leave her phone alone.
2007-03-06 09:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is okay cos dat way she cant keep any secret away from u,and u get 2 know the cell no. of her frds in case of an emergency
2007-03-06 10:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋