I am due May 31st, so almost 7 months. I was just wondering how you are feeling if you around 7 months. I always thought I would feel different, but its kind of normal just with a big o' belly! I am excited somedays but then somedays I feel really nervous. I still have about 3 months which feels like forever but at the same time feels way too soon. My fiance doesn't seem to really want to talk about the baby or even act like we are having one, is that normal? Shouldn't he be more excited? I think he's scared and it really hasn't hit him yet. Anyway tell me how you are feeling?
2007-03-06 01:40:11 · 7 answers · asked by newmommy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Im 24 weeks with baby number 3! I know how you feel, im due June 23rd but the dr thinks i will have him late may early june, i never made it to term! It does seem like forever, but we are almost done already!!! Think of all the months weve already been through!! Men are "wired" different as well, sucks i know lol but its the truth. Im sure hes excited but he doesnt feel the baby move, doesnt feel connected to it, theres no bond created there yet, and its all normal. Once the baby is born is when it all becomes real to them. and not before then!!! ive already done all my shopping, and my hubby really hasnt played any part in it. It will happen once the baby is here, just give him his space to accept him. Im sure hes scared of how his life is about to change!!! Goodluck and happy pregnancy!
2007-03-06 01:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am due 6th May and I know what you mean about feeling normal but with big belly!! It is either I don't feel any different to before I was pregnant or I have adjusted to the downsides and hardly notice them LOL (Heartburn, back ache, rib ache, pelvis ache.........) I am really nervous too but I think the reality of actually having a baby will kick in when I leave work on the 13th April - OMG I get butterflies just thinking about it!! We have almost everything now and the only things we don't have can be bought after bubs is here, that is a scary feeling too.
Unfortunately it is hard for men (I think anyway) to feel much because they don't have to do anything at the moment and as they aren't carrying baby they can't comprehend the feelings we have when we feel it move etc. I am sure everything will be great once the baby is here. We have to remember that sometimes even we don't feel like we are pregnant so god knows how it feels to be the impending father LOL
Take care and good luck with your baby xxxx
2007-03-06 02:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by kimbo1605 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am due May 25th. I feel about the same way. I am tired a lot more than before and I also am peeing all the time again (kid loves my bladder!) but other than that just my belly. I just wish time would fly. I see my doctor every two weeks due to complications so it seems like I have FOREVER to go. I am also nesting and am running out of things to clean! lol My hubby doesn't really talk about the baby either (our 4th). He didn't with our first either until she was here. Then I couldn't get a chance to hold her unless he was at work. lol He will get better. Hope this is what you were looking for. Good luck and congrats on your baby!
2007-03-06 01:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, Congrats on the new baby! I am due May 28th! I also feel normal but just huge! Well actually I did, up until about 3 weeks ago, now I cannot wait for this baby to pop out!! I am soo tired of being fat, not being able to get comfortable at night, just plain out feeling like I am carrying around 4 bowling balls!! lol. Yes, your fiance should be more excited, but he might just be nervous. My husband was the same way at first, just acting like he didnt really care, but then i started getting him involved, by telling him everytime he kicked, what it felt like, we went and got a 3D ultrasound ( which is awesome!!) and i let him feel everytime he kicks! I bought cute baby outfits for him to see.... Now he is soooooo excited, already talking about what him and his son are going to be doing in 20 years! Ha Ha. Anyways, Good Luck
2007-03-06 01:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by yahoocraze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats I am due May 26th. I feel Ok some days I have a heave feeling in my abdomen. But I am sick of being so big, it would not be that bad if I had not started getting a little arm fat, which is driving me crazy. Time seems to be dragging. As far as your fiance I am sorry he is not more envolved. This is our forst baby and my husband is so excited. Every time we go shopping he buys the baby little outfits and tries to feel him kick, every time the baby starts to kick he stops as soon as he puts his hand on my belly. My hubbie has even taken all next weekend off to get his nursery ready
I think maybe you should talk to your fiance about how you feel
2007-03-06 02:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! I'm due June first with my first (a son) and I just came back from the doctor's yesterday. Everything is fine and I've gained 17 pounds total (I'm tiny, so I'm feeling incredibly HUGE!) but I love feeling my baby kick and move and I love reading him books and singing him songs.
My fiance doesn't talk as incessantly about the baby as I do, but I know he cares. I think that it's hard for some guys to grasp the concept because they're not experiencing any symptoms or feeling the baby move themselves. They can only see our growing tummies! As long as he still loves you and is being supportive, please try not to worry about it. Everyone gets scared about a new baby on the way, but once he/she is here, all your worries kinda fade. Or so I've heard.
I've been feeling sick (got a cold emerging) and achy all over. But overall, I'm happy...except for the times when I get upset that my fiance doesn't worry about things as much as me. But I guess it's just the hormones and life is good!
Congrats!
2007-03-06 03:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by keonli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 7 months pregnant and ive been so sleepy lately...Ive also been having some dizzy spells...My boyfriend doesnt talk about the baby a whole lot but its because hes worried something may go wrong with the delivery or my heart condition...Some guys just dont talk about things that scare them lol...
2007-03-06 18:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Inked Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋