i few years ago my husband cheated on me with my sister it happened more than once and i feel so let down and sometimes i cant look at him but i stayed because we have two girls and i want the to have both of us he denys it happen but in my heart i know it did my sister told me it did and i dont think she would lie so what sould i do
2007-03-06 01:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by ann k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've hurt long enough! Get out, and leave him to his adulterous ways. Not only is he a cheater, he's a liar too....adding insult to injury!
2007-03-06 01:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you still talk to your sister? I am sorry your husband has responsibility to the marriage but your sister is blood and should never ever have come between you and your man. I would beat her @ss every time I saw her after that. I would also get rid of hubby. sometimes cheating can be forgiven and fixed in a marriage but this was a situation that is pretty unforgivable.
2007-03-06 01:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this a Jerry Springer episode??? Leave him b/c you are actually going to end up hurting your children. Your children aren't stupid and can sense the feeling you have towards your husband. You can be a strong single mother and a great role model for your children. As for your sister I would be more hurt by her doing this than your husband. That is the worst thing a sister could do.
2007-03-06 01:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by jesreekakorb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, if your husband cheated on you with your sister, this demonstrates a real lack of judgement on his part.. and more than once? Your sister wouldn't likely lie about something this dramatic.. I understand about the kids.. but you have to protect yourself you know. If he would do this with your sister, what else has he done with others that you don't know about? Don't be a doormat for anyone. He sounds like he is locked into denial mode..so buck up and stand up for yourself.
2007-03-06 01:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by aralissselundel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE! My goodness! When a man cheats on a woman with a stranger, I can ALMOST understand why she might stay, but this is your sister!! He has no respect for you.
I know you want to stay because of your daughters, but I don't think it's what's best for them. They shouldn't grow up thinking that "love" is like that.
If your husband is a good father, don't fight for sole custody, a man could be a good father without being a good husband.
I believe you should leave.
2007-03-06 01:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You trust your Sister because "she would not lie"? If it happened your Sister has no integrity at all and is thus untrustworthy. Go talk to a therapist and work out your issues or divorce and move on. You dont have to live a wrecked life if you dont want to.
2007-03-06 01:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sumthing like this is never good for a family, sit down wit him and ur sister and confront him try to sort of a solution and if ur gonna forgive him then let it go. no point of forgivin if ur gonna hold on to the problem and keep bringing it up. in the end its up to you to decide
2007-03-06 01:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by ilovetotones1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your sister do that to you? How can you be mad at him, but not your sister. It's been a few years you should resolve this already.
2007-03-06 01:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should separate for a while. You should demand the whole truth to take him back. If a year goes by and you haven't got the truth then he cant be trusted.
2007-03-06 01:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Metavia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to forgive and forget and live a new life.
And keep your mean sister out of his life atleast.
2007-03-06 01:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by CG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋