Its hard to explain but basically, b4 going to uni I had a good set of mates. My best friend moved away and she came back a year later. Anyway since then shes become moremore of a *****. I feel as if everything I do gets on her nerves! Shes always like why do you do that?! And omg ur so stupid and no we dont do things that way etc. She said she even wouldnt come to my wedding if I married my current boyfriend, because she hates him :( Help what do I do. She has opinions on everybody and people who think are cool she hates and vice versa. I think we have grown appart! What do I do?
2007-03-06 01:17:04 · 4 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Continue to be friends with her. Although friends separate and don't see eye to eye anymore doesn't mean they can't be friends. When she says things that offend her, put her back in her place. When she said she wasn't gonna come to your wedding. You should have said I am sorry you feel that way I am sure you will be missed. When she says or calls you a name begin to question her manners. When she says we don't do things that way - say this way works for me and I am fine with that. You have to check and put your friends in their place, somethimes they think they can say anything to you and you have to say hey b*tch you can't say that to me. You may have outgrown your friends but they are still your friends. Unless you can't deal with them anymore keep them around. Theres a reason they are your friends but if you can't remember the reason it is time to let them go!
2007-03-06 01:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a normal part of life. No one keeps all their friends from childhood til death.
If she's acting like this now, it could be because she feels like you're drifting apart as well, and doesn't know how to handle it. It could also be that she is jealous of you going away to uni.
Either way, you have to make a decision as to whether the friendship is worth enough to you to continue to put up with your friend's surly behavior.
2007-03-06 09:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a nice way tell her if she doesnt want to support you or lisson to what you have to say, then yall should find new friends. .. . i kno if my best friend said she wasnt commin to my wedding be cuz she didnt like my man i wouldnt be very happy with her :(
2007-03-06 09:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by mAnDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about this. Tell her that she has changed, talk to her about how you feel. Give her some time.
2007-03-06 09:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by <hailey> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋