when on the job people can make you angry whether it be your boss,co workers or customers.if you drive people on the highway can irritate you in a thing called road rage.sometimes the world can anger you like the government,currupted school systems,currupted court systems,currupted cops.lots of crimes being committed,conflicts with family,spouse or in laws,problems with bill collectors and etc.when someone makes us angry of course we want to kick their butts,however we know we get in trouble.maybe want to cuss them out,give them the finger or both.exercise helps,but you cant exercise 24 hrs.if youre a believer of god youre mad at him for allowing people to make you angry.or you may want to drink alcohol or smoke weed to take your mind off it meaning anger.yes theres anger management,but that is not available 24-7.those who say move on or get past it thats b.s.,easier said than done.these are the issues of the world and are not excuses.i have anger issues im not afraid to admit.do you?
2007-03-06 01:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I see what you're saying. All the things you mentioned that make you angry are the same things that can make me angry. I try...I really do try not to let myself get angry and get out of control but sometimes it is so difficult. Especially the whole road rage thing. All's I'm tryin to do is get home or get to work and it seems like everyone around me is just there to piss me off. I can feel myself getting angry and I try to stay sane and tell myself all the things I "should" but there is this line inside my head and once I cross it there is no turning back and no reasoning with myself.
Even when I figure out why I get/got so angry I can't apply the things I learn about angry once I am in the situation. Its like I need an anger management buddy ( like in A.A.) where I can call and say Hey I'm going over the edge...pull me out.
I don't know what the answer is but maybe it's like A.A. the first step is admitting we have a problem...lol. If I ever find the cure I'll be sure to let you know...until then I guess we struggle along together.
2007-03-06 01:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what you mean. It seems that you gave words to what I feel. I think this just shows that how sensitive you are and the injustices around you make you feel angry and frustrated.
Although being sensitive and compassionate are good qualities but when they strart effecting you to an extent that they cause you to get angry, its' time to seek help.
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2007-03-10 02:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by wonderme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a short fuse, definitely. It comes from years of heckling in high school. I was the quiet one (still am somewhat) and the girls always thought I was stuck up and used to pick on me all the time.
Now, since i've grown, I have a bit of a chip on my shoulder from earlier stuff and now if someone tried to disrespect me now, they'd have a problem, for sure.
And I don't smoke pot because i'm mad. I smoke it because it stimulates my mind, man.
2007-03-06 09:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure i work with unemployed people, and a great number of them will never work again, I am angry, my boss is angry, unemployed are furious
my medicine - reading and sleeping
live the work problems at the job
2007-03-06 09:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by toknowmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,breathe deep and meditate.
2007-03-06 09:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least you are open and aware of yourself. You are a better person for it.
2007-03-06 09:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure how to answer this, because I don't know if it is a question or a discourse. Could you clarify please?
2007-03-06 09:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not so sure
2007-03-06 09:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Assad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋