i had a awful dream?

Question

i had a dream my husband got killed.. it was awful.. i read online that dreaming of death meant that a period in your life is ending..

well thrusday morning i'm having my tubes tied..

should i take the dream as a warning that i'm not ready to have them tied.. or does it just mine its the end the death of my having babies anymore..?

i have a 12 yr old and a 19 month old a boy and a girl.. so i do have kids..

i'm just nervous about the whole deal..

what do you think??

thanks everyone.. the answers are all good and its going to be hard to pick the best!! :)

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I think you are nervous about the surgery. Your dreams come from what you hear, see and experience and you are the dreamer. Only you know what it means. You connected it to a period that is ending because you read that on the net. You can read many things on the Internet, so don't believe everything you read. But the period of reproduction is ending for you so that does fit the situation right now. We sense changes in our lives, even in our dreams, and we hope for good changes. This surgery heralds a period of concentration on your children and a time to enjoy them while they are young. This will give you a total focus and relieve you of many questions. You now know when and where the reproductive stage is ending. How wonderful to live in a time when this is possible!

It does sound like you are tense because this awaits you, but now you and your husband won't have to plan for more babies and expenses, and this will be over soon just as your dream was. It is very normal to wish things were "over". And this surgery is quick and painless so you will soon be relieved. It is exciting and a gift though you may not see that right now. Maybe you will after Thursday and then you can relax and enjoy the change. Good luck. @8-)

Answer 3

Death could mean a new beginning. It is how you look at it. Getting your tubes tied will release all the anxieties of a unwanted pregnancy, you and your husband may experience the greatest sexual relationship yet to come. You know how much work it takes to care for the children you have, do you truely think you would like to have another?

Answer 4

The dream speaks clearly that a once important role or function of your husband is being killed, that being the relationship between you and him as to him being a future father to a newborn with you.
It is a big deal isn't it? And I see why you are nervous about it. To be otherwise, wouldn't be too human. I hope you and your husband are comfortably on the same page as to your family planning for the future.

Answer 5

nicely, having an undesirable dream could propose that your drained suggestions reminds you approximately something that makes you annoying. attempt and loosen up - take issues responsibly yet not too heavily. don't be scared to flow back to sleep; this replaced into basically a dream, this is not genuine. believe me, in a week you will forget approximately approximately it.

Answer 6

it is a big step that many women have trouble deciding on what is right. you may need to rethink this one. you can always go back and have them reversed, but, it is costly and you will have to take some other kind of birth control after wards. has your husband considered a vasectomy? they are much easier on the male.

Answer 7

It's OK. You are being very logical by making this choise.
Your heart just needed to go through a little acceptance phase.
Good luck, and may your family be very happy whatever you do!

Answer 8

i think he is probably safe

maybe the drems are related to having your tubes tied

this is the sort of thing you could pay a good psychologist to help you figure out