Have a friend who is bothered by his past relationship.
Perhaps you guys could help to offer some helpful advise.
Love Scenario:
Mr A meet Ms B 2 years ago.
Mr A love Ms B alot that he gave up drinking, Smoking and did whatever he
could to be with Ms B.
But Ms B doesnt love Mr A,their relationship ended 6 months later.
1 year later, Mr A found Ms C.
Ms C love Mr A alot and provided whatever she could to be with Mr A.
Now,Ms C suggest that they get married.
And now Mr A is married to Ms C,
Though Being Loved by Ms C but he still miss Ms B alot.
Did Mr A made a wrong choice?
If Ms B come back to Mr A someday or Found someone similar to Ms B.
What should he do?
2007-03-06
00:57:33
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novkhan
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
he shouldnt have gotten married if that isnt where his heart really is. hopefully he wouldnt leave c for b if she came back. c have a what he needed when b bailed
2007-03-06 01:01:54
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answered by Mrs.Vick 4
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no , mr A made the right choice , no matter what the scenario's are the past always seems better when you have been away from it for awhile , it is like being in the sea , then living inland for 20 years , the sea still is the same , you can go back , but the experience will be the same as when you were there all those years ago , stay with ms C ms B didnt work , wont work , stay with what is working , it all reverts back to the same old groove it was , just hold onto the pain from that and hit yourself so you bleed , so you can relise that you are currently doing the right thing , stay there !!
2007-03-06 01:05:49
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answered by DSV 6
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He is already married and having regrets? His wife Ms C seems to be a loving and caring wife so let them be. If he is getting along well with the marriage then let them be. Somehow he needs to forget about the past and look forward to the present and future. Good luck.
2007-03-08 19:28:12
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answered by happy 4
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Obviously, he's not over Ms B...And if he's about her then he can't be in love with Ms C.. That is an unhealthy relationship and all he is going to do is hurt people... SO- yes, he made the wrong decision to get married...
2007-03-06 01:03:03
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answered by Anonymous
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I think he should let the past stay in the past and concentrate on his wife and their relationship. It sounds like he married a very kind, devoted woman, so he needs to stay in the present and work on his marriage.
2007-03-06 01:05:22
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answered by vanhammer 7
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the past should be in the past, maybe he likes to be in relationships where he is controlled, maybe he feels comfortable like that. but if he doesn't truly love who he is with he needs to get a divorce if he is planning on seeking someone else, and not go behind wife's back. he seems stuck in the past, stuck on someone that found nothing but fault with him, he is wanting to be with the past relationship in spite that he wasn't loved by her. he is making a huge mistake here.
2007-03-06 01:27:52
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answered by jude 7
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some persons might inform you to not carry somebody's previous against them yet hell, i might so have my eyes and ears open in any respect cases. in simple terms because of the fact she hasn't carried out stuff like that for the duration of a collectively as, does not mean she would get that itch lower back and cheat with your bro, suited chum, or another guy on the threshold of you. i think of for some human beings its an subconscious area of for sure seek for out something slightly new for a quick collectively as and then come lower back after the will is sated. yet see we aren't animals like that. we aren't lions that would in simple terms scoot up at the back of a mate, pump slightly and as quickly as we climax go away them and go lower back to our companions. human beings have messy thoughts that get human beings injury and broken up with. So analogy aside, watch her like a hawk and initiate searching for any indicators she may well be feeling that itch. in simple terms be waiting to tell her to which you're arranged to break up because of the fact of such behaviour. yet rather i don't think of it would end her from doing it to somebody else nevertheless.
2016-12-18 06:51:25
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answered by Anonymous
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