we used to hang out till late night, shes married and her other half is 3000 miles away. she constatnly calls me send me text every morning when she wakes up. But now, i feel like shes ignoring me. As far as im concern, ive always been there for her, i never hurt her feelings n i cant even afford to say no to her. I always tell myself that she's busy with work or maybe tired with work and maybe thats the reason why she's ignoring me. I know i will see her again soon, but im starting to feel awkward now. can u guys help me with this. do u think i should just move on wif my life and end this relationship? because i feel like she dosent carw about me.
2007-03-06 00:09:59 · 14 answers · asked by stevie_kop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It seems something did happen here, if you shared I think that would be more helpful in answering you
2007-03-06 00:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Olga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing but the only thing different is my friend is not married but busy with her family.
And she finds hard to give me attention so I told her that she is busy, so whenever she feels like talking to me she can ring me.
And I moved on.. but to be honest, it really hurts, I want to talk to her whole day but I cant do it.
For u, I'll say she is married now and her husband is there in her life so u have come in #2position, give her space maybe her hubby doesnt like her talking to u or some other problem. Have patience and talk to her.
All the best!
2007-03-06 13:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by lets_smile07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably got loads to do but you do seem a little desperate for her attention and friendship perhaps best all round if you do move on? better to have known a good friend than never to have known one at all, i honestly don't think she feels same about your freindship as you do so sorry for sounding harsh but if she did she would be in touch wouldn't she? Move on chuck and be happy :)
2007-03-06 08:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that is exactly what happens to "friends".
But if she is a true friend she will be there.
She is married now and she needs to make a life for herself without depending on you to do it. You sound like you are depending too much on her to keep you're life going.
Life will pass you by if you let it. Don't let it.
2007-03-06 08:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
something could be going on in her life which is difficult to deal with right now, and she may feel no one would understand, give her the space she needs, let her no youre there for her and leave it at that, make new friends and start living your life
2007-03-06 10:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd move on Bro- and if she calls I'd talk but that's it. don't let her drag you back down into a slump about anything. I can't stand it when someone sounds like they are using you just when they are lonely or just becaus you happen to be there handy!!
Why can't you afford to say no is my question?
2007-03-06 08:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want more out of this then she does, after all she is married.
You need to walk away and stop hurting yourself.
Good luck for the future. x
2007-03-06 09:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants more but realizes shes married and the two of you cant be anymore than just friends
2007-03-06 08:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
friends sometimes drift apart..she does this as she probably cares about you but wants to expand her world...it happens...let them go
2007-03-06 08:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-03-06 11:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋