2007-03-06 00:07:22 · 17 answers · asked by Crystal T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really love him then marry him and try to talk to him or his ex's. If he still wants to talk to his ex's and you feel uncomfortable about then you should probably not marry him. He may go back to one of his ex's if your relationship doesn't last...Good Luck.
2007-03-06 00:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by *~*Alyssa*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just doesn't want to hold a grudge. I have a bf and I talk 2 my ex every once and a while. If he's ready 2 be commited 2 u, he won't be doing anything serious w/ his exs. You should let him talk 2 them, but not more than he talks 2 u.
2007-03-06 00:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you to marry him he must love you. who cares who he talks to. he will only love you more and even brag to his friends how wonderful you are if you don't care. If you are going to marry him then you have to trust each other 100% . If you are going to be married trust me him talking to his Xs or any other girl is the least of your worries. I have been married for 15 years and my husband talks to his Xs. I have even become friends with them. eventually the Xs leave the picture and only show up every now and then. who cares most of the time they are very good people who eventually marry other people as well. believe me they have lives as well. Trust your heart. If he is a good man in the first place with INTEGRITY then even if the X makes a move he will tell her to stop. In order to make this work you need trust.(Don't be surprised if he gets jealeous if you talk to someone, just don't even try to understand the male species . you will make yourself go nuts.) If he is worth it don't sweat it. I don't. in time yourhusband will drive you crazy anyway and you will wish he would go talk to someone. haha . you will be fine . In marriage there is alot worse things that happen. just make sure before you get married I truly believe that pre-marriage classed through your church will help this marriage make it. God Bless and Good Luck
2007-03-06 00:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by dogers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and tell that it makes you wonder. However, a lot of people remain friends after they separate, - just make sure that it's innocent and nothing else is going on. At the end of the day, he did not marry her!
2007-03-06 00:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bullshitting and wants to make the most with of you.
Firstly why is talking to his ex?
He shows no respect for you and your emotions and all he is bothered about himself as a selfish individual.
Would want to continue with a person whose doesn't respect you and your emotions would you want to marry such and person and do you see a future with this person who is not concerned about ur emotions?
2007-03-06 00:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im the only guy writing here!!!!
if hes talkin to his exes then it means 1 of 2 things...either he is good friends with them after breaking up on good terms....or 2...he still has feelings for them
if it does worry u talk to him about it and tell him ur frustrations. then its up to him....but this way u are showing him ur emotions on the issue...and in doing so, he knows where u stand.....in addition...u know where HE stands on the issue. maybe this will enlighten you to how much he really does/doesnt care about u....
wish u luck
2007-03-06 00:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by C Dizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust this C O C K S U C K E R and shouldn't marry him.
2007-03-06 00:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's talking to his ex, doesnt mean he is doing something wrong. You're paranoid.
2007-03-06 00:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by matt_archbold2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and encourage hin to do what he want to do because once your married he's in it for life, be prepared for the worst in which case it will be the best for you in the long run.
2007-03-06 00:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would be uncomfortable if my boyfriend were talking to his ex, i would wonder why he is doing that.
2007-03-06 00:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋