I had a girl friend, and we broke up 11 months ago. I still dwell on it.
I want to know who was wrong.
This is what I think I did right
Told her I loved her.
Gave her a second chance.
Told her I didn`t want sex as I wanted to be sure.
Saw her everyday.
Told her she is my dream and is beautiful.
This is what I did wrong.
Told her I needed to see what else is out there.
Was moody around her/ and sometimes obsessive.
Didn`t want to commit by saying "Lets go out."
She broke up with me (I think because);
I didn`t want to ask her out.(Even though I said we together)
Concentrated a lot on varsity work - I put that first.
Got angry that her parents interfereed a lot.
Got really angry after she was stone cold in first break up and had to beg her, when she was friendly to everyone else but me. (Made me bitter and damaged trust.)
Wasn`t sure about her.
Got really angry when she blew a kiss at someone.
She was into another guy 9 days later.
What do u think? I had good intentions,.
2007-03-06 00:03:37 · 7 answers · asked by K S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u wouldn't commit and show her she was in a safe relationship, u wanted to see what else was out there, saying to her, u weren't sure about her, maybe not satisfied with her/ u had different priorities besides her. u never took her out, angry at her parents, when u needed to meet them halfway. you weren't sure about her so she found someone who was sure about her. u missed the chance, as time waits for no one, she wanted a committed relationship, who wouldn't?
2007-03-06 00:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told her you were looking what else was out there!! you don't say that to any girl it makes them feel second best she needed to know you wanted her she wanted to feel secure and loved, if you were being moody around her she wouldn't feel wanted! as for her being into some one else 9 days later...either she was trying to make you jealous or she just didn't really care about your relationship. or maybe that was her way of saying 'it's over for good!' don't dwell on the situation babe, go out with your mates have a good time and meet some one new. am sure your a sexy guy so it wont take you long! just be sure what you want next time...the treat 'em mean keep 'em keen scenario doesn't always work! good luck babe xx
2007-03-06 00:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by sexy nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you did something wrong..she's just getting back at you by blowing a kiss to another guy and showing that she's into another guy 9 days later..you never should've said that you needed to see what else is out there if you still wanna come back to her..being obsessive is way freaky..how come you're not sure about her??..it's all messed up dude..
2007-03-06 00:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship became too stagnant for both of you. You pushed her away by asking what else is out there. It seems like you're still looking for someone else. You said, she's into another guy that soon? Maybe it's just rebound.
2007-03-06 00:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by aLLie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would look which you have some fears approximately marriage and dedication which you may desire to handle. as a effect, this female have been given ill of the back-and-forth remedy. even if, she is at fault besides for being misleading. She reconnects with you to get get admission to to somebody else. She isn't the single for you, yet you may desire to get in touch alongside with your fears and conquer them. Then, whilst omit astounding does come alongside, you'll recognize, at merely the the suited option time, that she is the single. Take time to wish approximately this besides. tell God which you rather desire the lady that He needs which you will have and which you rather desire help overcoming your fears of dedication. Prayer does artwork.
2016-12-18 16:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them with the next girl.
2007-03-09 19:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your fault, dude
2007-03-06 11:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋