Me and my man get on great when we are together, he sometimes thinks im a bit pessimistic but apart from that everything is perfect. Only its not when we drink. Every single time we get drunk together, we argue. When we first met months ago we didn't, why now? We have both had pretty bad relationships before we met. And im thinking maybe we need counselling, any suggestions apart from dont drink. ?
2007-03-05 23:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Suggestions apart from not drinking??? lol umm which is harder to give up the booze or the man? lol..
Look, in the beginning of ur relationship u didnt fight when u were drinking because 1. you were both on cloud 9 with each other. and 2. you didnt have as much dirt on each other as u do now.. as far as knowing each other inside and out and knowing just the right buttons to push with in each other.
Now when u both drink,1. Alcohol makes a person not think clearly, or rationally.. 2. Alcohol alters your mood, for some it makes them happy, some stupid, some crazy, some sad, and some angry.. 3.alcohol tends to give u a sense of bravery in away, so combine the three and u have just given each other a loaded weapon to aim at each other..
Also ive heard that certain alcohols tend to bring out the worst in people when they drink them.. for my x bf, he was fine if he drank beer, but if he drank tequilla , watch out..he was mean when he drank tequilla, for my best friend its, Crown and Coke, that makes her feel like she can kick the worlds azz..
My suggestion is to stop drinking, or try to drink something then what ur normally drinking to see if that helps..
2007-03-05 23:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're both irritable, pissy drunks. It has nothing to do with being drunk enough to say what's really on your mind. It has to do with the effects of alcohol. Either find a way to have fun together when your drinking so that you don't turn into irritable pissy drunks or don't drink. If anything, you might need counselling for alcoholism. You're relationship doesn't sound so bad except when you drink!
2007-03-06 07:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well aside from telling you not to drink, there is nothing else, your drinking is the problem. Find something else to do.When people drink they get silly and some people even angry and bitter, and that is no fun!! Counseling is a good idea, but the counselor is going to tell you the same thing. Stop the drinking. good luck.
2007-03-06 07:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your man have problems with alcohol. Get counseling or don't drink. You cant say you don't have a problem with it because you just. did
2007-03-06 08:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ican't judge what's going on between the two of you. But when it comes on drinking, it will bring all of our heartaches and anger. Alcohol is just like "truth medicine", it doesn't matter how calm and self control a person is but when it goes to our system, all of our hidden anger comes out....
2007-03-06 08:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your drunk. Stop drinking and you should be fine... Alcohol can change your personality you know. Look it up for your self...
2007-03-06 07:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the effects that drinking has on you and him, why bother to go through that? Is drinking that important to you and him?
2007-03-06 07:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you answered it yourself. If you cant handle boose and the relationship together, then you need to enjoy the two separately.
2007-03-06 07:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two may harbor some discontent that comes out when your tongues and hearts are loosened by drink.
2007-03-06 07:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As my grandma always told me, "IDIOT! Take that gator outside and THEN feed him grandpa."
I hope that helps!
2007-03-06 07:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joe K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋