with people who you did not mix with at school but I wish to now
2007-03-05 23:31:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be who you are and true to yourself - it is such acts that make people remember you for a life time. Never go out of your way to please people just for the sake of popularity!
2007-03-06 00:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Olga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes at school, like in a work place or even in the playground for parents when collecting their children after school, people are 'clickey', which means no matter what you do they just don't want to know you. Some kids, i dare say at your school are the same they are up their own bottoms i think and think they are too good for you. In all walks of life this can be the case love. What is wrong with your friends you have now? Try to say hello to the ones you would like to be friends with and see their reaction. Not everyone talks to everyone else, its life i and some of my neighbours don't know each other or talk and that is for no reason i can think of....... Just the way it is...
2007-03-09 05:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im Popular , i guess im use to being myself , kind and nice , if you arnt this naturally , people dont find you easy to be around..
I do anything for anyone as long as its resonable . its all about you and how u interact with others , u cant be popular by buying the hole grade an icey pole .... Stand your ground and earn the respect of others , then you will be popular - people will have respect for you and no eg. " ok , she has respect for me and shes really kind so i have to return it back" thats what the person should percieve of you , not a plastic thats all that and does silly and show off things for the boys..... Pretty costs a price , Being nice and respectful dosnt - it gets you places that the Pretty can't go...
Gud luck sweetie!! im only a yr8 and starting early on this on helps!! x x
2007-03-05 23:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Stelle S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not necessary to be popular and there is not a state rule about that. Why don't you try to be your self, have confidence, try for the best and give love to your friends and familiars. That is something they will appreciate and they will turn to you next time they have a problem or want just to have fun. Don't be afraid to differ! Be the leader and not the follower.
2007-03-05 23:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Natalia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be popular or do you want to make new friends? I don't know how to be popular, but I do know that being a good friend is like any other relationship - it takes some work and effort on your part.
2007-03-05 23:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself and be freindly and dont really judge anybody give everyone a chance. also if u want to hang around with all the girls that think there it and pick on people u shouldnt becoz something bad will only come out of it. i no this from my freinds experiance who tried this and ended up leaving school becoz she as being picked on so badly for being called a ****
hope this helps
2007-03-05 23:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can try being nice and friendly. I find people having those traits as easy going and tend to get more friends. More friends = more popular, in my opinion.
2007-03-05 23:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Ghost 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly, ask them questions about themselves, listen to their answers...
However, I'd also say, just be yourself - that way you're being honest about who you are and people will see you for all your genuine strengths and attributes. Don't try too hard and don't pretend for the sake of anyone else.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 23:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by flowerpot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and be friendly,start chatting to them.We all wanted to be the popular girl but very few of us ever were.
2007-03-05 23:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to be popular if you dont like the kids... but be nice and people will come in crowds
2007-03-05 23:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by czechoslovakian67 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋