Well me and my bf have been together for two years. And, im still a virgin.... But, im scared if giving it upto him. I really want to. But i just get nervous. What do i do?
2007-03-05 23:14:03 · 11 answers · asked by S M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old are you?
If you are under 18, please wait for love!
Your future husband will appreciate you all the more for that!
If you are 25 or over, maybe he isn't doing the right things or you are too inhibited about sex and should consider taking it one step at a time.
Let him experiment a little more each time until you are comfortable with what is going on.
You may also be having an attack of conscience, in which case, listen to it!
That is what seperates us from the rest of the animals!
2007-03-05 23:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when the time is right. Also, if you're not comfortable with having sex, continuing to engage in foreplay is only putting you in situations where you might end up behaving in a manner that you're not quite ready for. Only you can decide when the time is right for you...not him, not anyone. Just be careful. Once you've made that decision you can't go back. You can do everything known to mankind to protect yourself with regard to pregnancy and STD's but there is nothing you can do to protect your heart. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-06 07:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Scared is normal when your going to do something that you have never done before... your just nervous... your comfortable with him... but at the same time your uncomfortable doing that certain thing with him because some part of you is unsure of EXACTLY what to expect... just take it slow... the first time he needs to just take his time... it helps if the guy sets up the mood also... if you haven't thought of it yet... try alcohol... heh.. that's how I got past my nervousness... just enough to help your muscles relax.... not enough to lose rational thought... all things in moderation right??.. heh.. in my own experience... awkwardness sucks!.. but its not impossible to get past if you want to...
2007-03-06 07:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by ManMeat69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts the first time, and then it gets better. It is natural to be nervous. However, you need to know it's the right time, and that your circumstances are good. If you're not ready, then don't do it. Just make sure you get around to it someday :-)
2007-03-06 07:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an understanding guy, just wait until your ready, you will know.
2007-03-06 07:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you know in your heart that it is not right, dont give it up, you know somthing is wrong, somthing is not there, missing.
do you get the picture, you know that you will never get it back.
as always said, virginity and a balloon are the same, one prick and they are gone forever
2007-03-06 07:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;t do anything unless you are 100% comfortable with it. If he won't wait, kick him to the door.
2007-03-06 07:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you are ready
2007-03-06 07:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
submit to him only when he can respect the relationship not before
2007-03-06 07:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay and more foreplay. When you are ready you will know. ENJOY!!!
2007-03-06 07:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋