I've been single for awhile. I'm learning to be alone per say but it's hard. I was doing ok and then I got a lesbian for a roomie and she is really the coolest chic I know but I can't tell her. I found a roomie to take away from being alone but now I feel even worst. I can't sleep. I want to hold someone but I can't hold her, because, well, she's a lesbian. I just want someone I can talk to. Someone that will call me at the end of day to talk to me or at night to talk to me when they can't sleep like me at this point. I'm just tired of being alone. Sleepless in Seattle. Can I find a ending like that?
2007-03-05 22:32:46 · 13 answers · asked by Lawrence D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would be nice...but probably not realistic. I guess you need to learn to be happy with yourself. You just need to keep busy and not let it get you down.
2007-03-05 22:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, none of us are really meant to be alone. Take comfort in that although you miss someone to give your love and affection too. Being single is really not that bad ..what you need is some perspective i think that will help.
Although you don't have a girl who loves you yet. You have time to focus on your studies (girlfriends take a lot of your time away). Getting an education is important and you will get heaps more done this way. Once you are out of school and gotten yourself a career going then you can focus on your love life. Right now you have all the freedom in the world , enjoy it while it lasts. When you one day settle down and have kids you will miss the time where you had all this freedom to travel and do what you wanted. Flying solo also lets you have more money available to you since you don't have to worry about spending it on her.
I think what you really need right now is a good friend and a better social outlet.
Don't rush love
2007-03-05 22:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could "find an ending like that" your Life would be over too.
This is not a movie. Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan might have both jumped off the Empire State Building had the movie rolled on. The
best place to find a friend is where you work or go to school and where you enjoy yourself, as a hobby or pasttime. Ask yourself what you have time to do that interests you. People of like minds and lifestyles work best for each other. If you find an interest or a hobby you are happy doing, the rest should follow. Good luck.
2007-03-05 22:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start some new hobbies or clubs in order to meet a new group of people.Maybe take an evening class, your aim shouldn't be to just date to find someone to hold, as we all know when your looking you never find it.Just try and chill out and learn something new.Trying something new takes your mind off the matter.Wishing you the best.
2007-03-05 22:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by mother hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should'nt have picked a girl a room mate as obviously you are looking for more than just a friend. Lets face it its not gonna happen with her, but if you like her you should just try and keep your feelings as friends and spend more time going out with the lads, then you may find yourself a new girlfriend.
2007-03-05 22:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno wat u are feelin i use to feel the same way i always heated being alone and i always try to fine sumone when i did feel alone so i was never alone than after a break up i was sick of the hurt and said i'm jus gunna take it easy for a while than i saw my friends and other ppl in relationships lookin soo happy soo in love and i jus felt sooo alone..noone to love me noone to hold me noone to make me feel safe..so i looked & looked and nothing so i jus said forget it...a friend told me i should stop lookin and let love find u..& so i did i stop lookin and now i'm wit a guy who i am MADLY IN LOVE WIT...so jus don't look let love find u and the way u can tell if it's ment to be is by ur heart...let ur heart tell u
2007-03-05 22:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will calm u down.
What about ur friends.
Do they know how u feel.?
Why don't u go in a doctor.
They can help you a lot.
I hope all the best good luck 2 you.
2007-03-05 22:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad you're in the other side of the world otherwise we could talk... take melatonin to help you to sleep...
- "Sleepless in Taipei" -
2007-03-05 22:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish good luck to find a solution
2007-03-05 22:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it will end when you find a girl for you
2007-03-05 23:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋