i am getting married to a nice young man .we were interduced few months back and we liked each other and both of us have fallen in love .what we have not had sex .as this is for the first night of the wedding in our people .what would i like to know from my fello asian girls is do most of them perform oral sex .i am not sure about this .is it normel in indian people to have oral sex
please forward your expirences
2007-03-05 22:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you are sikh, see a doctor.
2007-03-05 23:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Steamysteam 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you are waiting to have sex until you are married, then wait also for oral sex. They are both very intimate acts and experimenting with oral will only make it more difficult to abstain. If you can't wait then get married sooner! Or you could just do what you feel like doing and be true to yourself instead of worrying about doing the same as everyone else.
2007-03-06 06:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by mammmia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not Sikh but an older and wise white lady and I have a healthy attitude to sex and love. Making love and having sex without love can be two different things. When having sex without love anything is permissible as long as both partners are willing. When making love the same applies but you will find that anything you do is natural if you have respect and love for each other. Do what you are comfortable with and if your partner really loves you he will be willing to go along with you.
Have a good marriage with lots of love-making.
2007-03-06 06:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by leximp 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am not indian also, but maybe for the 1st time you could just have average penetrated sex and as you become sexually comfortable eachother you can move on oral sex ( if its ok with you and your partner). Or you can ask your partner if he likes the idea of oral sex.
2007-03-06 06:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Blackout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to control ,specially for males while doing oral sex.My advise: get married & enjoy sex.
Caste , religion,country does not matter. Sex is sex and it is to be enjoyed under society boundaries.
2007-03-06 07:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not indian, but I work with an indian woman (south african indian) and she says that her and her husband have oral sex and that it's ok. She's hindian
2007-03-06 06:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
It is totally up to you. if you feel uncomfortable of the idea then dont do it. take your time on it.
you dont have to do everything on that night.
you dont even have to have s e x.
you could try oral, but am sure your husband will like it
2007-03-06 06:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋