i did alot of things that im not proud and im trying im best to change but she dont see it ,not mry thinking of asking her on the 8 im ready to move on i cant take it anymore is if she say no that ok i cant force someone to do anything i know THAT THIS IS NOT RIGTH BUT I FEEL THAT SHES ONLY WITH ME BECouse she fells sorry for me and she dont talk to me about anything ask her or dont
2007-03-05 22:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by g cali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I am a baby mama with a baby daddy that is in your shoes right now. I will let you know this. It is very hard to let go of the man who you have a child with especially if there is love involved, but at the same time it is hard to always take you guys back and here the same old b.s. over and over again "I'm sorry" "It won't happen again". Then it always happens again, and again. Just put yourself in her shoes for once. All the sorrys in the world doesn't bring back trust, but there is love and they may be saved. I am taking my baby daddy back again but I will let him suffer for a while before I do that. Maybe that is what yours is doing too. Good luck and I hope things work out for you but treat her like a lady if she takes you back treat it like the last time you may never get that chance again!!!!
2007-03-05 22:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by renesarah1209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering where the baby went when it is mentioned in your question and then disappears in your problems. Sounds like you and the mother aren't working out, to say the least, but what about the baby? The baby will always be yours, so don't lightly dismiss it just because you can't work it out with it's mother. Stay in your baby's life and let the mother go about her business on the boyfriend end of things. You said it is not right and you have a front row seat.
2007-03-05 22:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution there is to start or keep doing all those changes for the better not only for your mom but also for yourself. Your mom will soon realize that you are sincere and maybe will try her best to change too. Spiritual healing will also help.
2007-03-05 22:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by s_leopando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you helping out financially? In other words, are you paying child support? If you aren't, that is why she is upset. Kind words do not feed the baby, etc. Help out financially and spend time with the baby.
2007-03-05 22:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Movielota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to marry you or move on and learn to use birth control.
2007-03-05 22:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it seem like it is best for you to move on with your life.
2007-03-05 22:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno
2007-03-05 22:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by jayanthi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋