it has been 11 years, he is 40 and I'm 29. the first 2 years were great he used to go down all the ,during the last nine years maybe 7 times maybe, I give him oral all the time and dont understand why he does not return the favor..
2007-03-05 21:55:56 · 13 answers · asked by Bjg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not fat, ugly or dirty i dont get it
2007-03-06 05:00:19 · update #1
Maybe he thinks he doesn't "have to" anymore. When a couple has been together for so long we get comfortable and stop worrying about impressing them so much. When couples first get together you are constantly worrying about the impression that you're making on your new lover and of course you want to satisfy them as much as possible. If you've already tried asking him and he is just flat out refusing maybe it is an odor and you should speak with your gyno about the problem. If you haven't discussed this with him then you need to! Let him know how you feel. I'm sure it is really nothing. Things like this happen all the time in older relationships. I am sure that if you talk this over with your boyfriend he will have no problem pleasuring you orally. And since he'll know about the insecurities you've been having recently because of this issue he'll probably put forth some extra effort even! ;)
2007-03-05 22:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i did not know of a male who does not do that,as far as guy talk goes. well if you can't tie him up, when your giving him oral and he is just about there... "stop" and you could say something like "69 time" or whatever you want it won't matter you could ask for a new car if you like you have his full attention or should i say you have him by the balls, literally. hate to give out that kind of info to be used against a fellow guy but hey he has to act like 1 first. oh forget the car thing you did not here that from me......
2007-03-05 23:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ugh, that is such a horrible way to describe it. Do you say "will you eat me out"?? that might be the problem!!!!
Sounds like he's gotten lazy, stop giving him oral for awhile and when he asks why, tell him!
2007-03-05 22:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried sitting down and TALKING to him? It's possible that he feels neglected in some way or that he isn't getting what he needs either. Men refuse to be open and honest, it's like pulling teeth. Start with asking him why.
2007-03-05 22:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a two way street. Do the same to him. Maybe he'll understand then.
2007-03-05 22:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are ya funky?, you know the ole dirtyass
and for the petes sake, dont follow that dumbassed advice to withold sex and teach him a lesson, thats just childish and a vicious circle of ignorance
2007-03-05 22:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
definately stop giving it to him. Hopefully he will realise and resume doing this. If he does not, talk to him, tell him you enjoy it and if he still does not do it, don't resume doing him.
2007-03-05 22:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by soxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about it instead of asking strangers what they think.
2007-03-05 22:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not willing to give why should you? give him what your getting and see how he likes it,this may change his attitude.good luck
2007-03-05 22:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have lost interest in u or he is too stress
2007-03-05 21:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋