How do I get a life?

Question

Basically, I am a bum living off my parents with no life. How do I get a life?
My original question was going to be "how do I find a girl", but after looking at similar questions the most common answer to that seemed to be "don't search, let her come to you". Unfortunately that doesn't really work for people who have no reason at all to leave their home.
No job, hardly any education (dropped out of school many years ago), don't know anybody, no friends, I have a problem with getting anxious around people, and get depressed a lot. I pretty much define the word "loser". What can I do?

Answer 1

:[ aww don't call yourself that, lowers self-esteem which
in the end affects your actions.

First I would definitely suggest going back to school, while there attempt to make as many friends as possible! Also, try
to get a part-time job so you have enough time to spend on
school, and enough money in your pocket.
If you end up making friends at school, go out!!
Maybe to like closest cities!! Find places that you guys would like!
If you can't bring friends or didn't get them, w/e, I would suggest walking around cities, your town, etc. and walk around look for places you'd like to go, maybe meet more friends or even a girl!

As for anxiety, I used to like freak out around new people, like
I could never talk to someone new without an old friend,
if it's like a major problem like shaking and sweating, then see doctor, but if you just blush get a little warm, then no big deal!
Just practice, like talk to family, get a feel of what you would talk about, Prepare for Conversation!!!!! lol :]

Hope this Helps!
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Answer 2

see friend i feel you are above 20 and you said that you were droppped out of school what ever the reason . u are alone and feel alone and you said you are not having any job but money is important to live in this world correct .try to first find good job like you can live life ok even if you find love and that girl start loving you then she will like to marry with u when you will marry were you will keep her ,will you able to fulfill her need ?how will you do if you dont have money ? so first thing is to find and try to get job then see your life .life will come to you see each and every person is depressed with life let it be rich person or poor person and dont tell you are loser never god has given each and every person same power same brain the diffrence is that how you use your brain not need to study i have see many people many people which are educated but not even able to earn a penny just use your brain that were you have to go that will able to give u money and run fast my all best wishes to you best of luck pray to god and he will show you the way because we are the children of god so god will help and you are not a loser

first job then girl

Answer 3

Three simple words that will fix 90% off all problems, "Get a job." If you don't like your education standard can't you go somewhere and advance your education level.
The first step is to get fit because a fit body leads to a fit mind, start with long walks and then build up the pace. You will start to think I can take on other things like getting a job.

Answer 4

Stop calling yourself a loser would be a nice start. If your parents will still support you get an education. Go to a doctors about your anxiety. Make friends at your adult re-entry school or whatever. And pretty much wake up before you die.

Answer 5

Dude, you're funny, people will like you. Just go out anywhere at all to start with, end of the road, or shops, or a walk so you reduce that anxiety. Then go to a store and ask someone if they have something in stock or does this come in black, whatever it take for you to start interacting. And look to getting a job, going to college, just start researching it, start somewhere, doors will open and more opportunities will present themselves.

Answer 6

never think that u r a looser...every one is best in himself...everyone possesses some qualities which others do not have...and it dosen't mean that only a girl can be your life... and if still u think so then being a girl i can only say that i'll try to be with u if u want...i also want a true friend..... if u think so then my i.d is [e-mail]...and never think that u are alone...never think that u r a looser....try to work hard...u can win the world if u want...best of luck...

Answer 7

Post your profile at YoBling.com

Be sure to leave out the loser part :)

Answer 8

firstly go 2 school and finish ur studies mayb the u will feel confident and can make new Friends and hopefully a gurlfriend

Answer 9

Go to a Life Shop

Answer 10

look for a job, anywhere, that will boost your confidence (which is all you really need) also look into joining a night class, something which interests you....and exercise, and smile! you will feel great!