it looks like fibromyalgia,but anyway not one time did my husband come see if i was ok or needed anything,infact right now hes telling me that i need to do more for him. I need some advice, i have never been in a homeless shelter and i dont have any family to turn to, i feel so alone and scared.
2007-03-05 21:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by milo2angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do you have a doctor to go to hun? have you told him that you are hurting? he cant help you if he doesnt know or ridicule you if he knows that there is a good reason for your bed rest. if he still does take the issue to god. god loves you and wants to be the lord of your life if you believe and accept him. hes also the best healer i know. god bless and keep you. i will pray for you .
2007-03-05 22:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by war 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are going through this pain without any compassion from your husband. My wife suffers from fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome and nerve damage in hip and leg. I know how hard it is to face everyday in constant pain. Many people including family members don't understand these illnesses because you don't "look sick". Sit down with your husband and take him to some of the fibromyalgia websites to show him the facts. Join an online support group to make friends and get the understanding you need. Try IDA.org. It is for those with invisible disabilites like fibro, lupus,MS,etc. Somedays I feel helpless because I can't make my wife feel better but I always try my best. Tell your husband that you need him to be supportive right now and try to understand & learn more about it. Maybe once he is aware of the daily trials you face, he will try to be more helpful. I hope so. It will be much more manageable if you face it as a couple.I wish you well.
2007-03-05 22:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the doctor and find out if it is indeed fibromyalgia. I was diagnosed with it 13 years ago. You will have good days and bad days. Eating right, exercise will help. I have been pain killer free for 3 years now. As for your husband, it is hard for them to understand because you look healthy but they don't understand the pain you are in. You need to educate him if you indeed do have fibromyalgia. Good luck
2007-03-05 22:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ignore him if you can until you are feeling well enough to make a decision. You can get the fibro under control, you will need to see a doctor to help you. After you do, if you don't have any family, you will need to start saving your money to get your own place ---try to stay where you are as long as it remains a safe place ---but keep in mind you will have to eventually leave because this person is not concerned about you, he's only concerned about himself.
2007-03-05 21:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, wish I could help, start to make plans to leave him, he is a selfish uncaring creep and he won't change, do you work, if so try to put money by to rent somewhere, you need to get away fromhim.
2007-03-05 21:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more like what? maybe he is sick of ur bs diagnosis of fibromyalgia. i think u r depressed.
2007-03-05 21:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋