I am an expecting father in Phoenix. I have a mother with poss. term. cancer (find out March 8) and my ex-girlfriend has a mom in Iowa that used to live in Phx. Her mother went to Iowa to be with family and the ex girlfriend moved with her because I wasn't in a position to take care of all of them. I have a child due April 11 and want desperately to go to Iowa for his birth. I can't set a "date" to go to Iowa because there's no guarantee that I will be there for the birth. I only have a short timeframe to go because 1..I can't afford it or I wouldn't ask for help and 2. I just started this job on the 6th of March. I want to be a good person and do the right thing but I am scared to death it's coming down to the wire. I want do definently do a paternity test and have been told to save on expenses that I can get it done free if it's still done at the hospital. I want to be at the hospital to add my name to the birth certificate. I have already purchased clothes for this baby.
2007-03-05 21:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by Patrick M 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I can never seem to get freq flyer miles to work when i need them. So I just gave up on using them. Good luck with both though.....
As for getting a DNA test ran, good thinking. might as well not be any doubt on the child you will be paying support for for the next 18+years. Its only free in the hospital if she is on state assistance I do believe. The state WANTS to prove who the father is if possible, so that they can collect the support money faster, since they are having to support the mother. Check into that in the state though, each state is different. That way you wont be shocked with a surprise bill.
2007-03-05 22:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sori if i offended you the last time,...hope i can be of help in your delemna but i am not capable of anything .i hope all things will work well with you.god bless
2007-03-07 12:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by tisya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry can't help you but good luck
2007-03-05 23:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, sorry. but good luck and congrats to you both.
2007-03-05 22:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋