just won't go away even after the fight is over ,and even though you try to forgive and forget,admit your part and apoligize,the pain of their words make it impossible to think of them the same,trust them the same,have faith in their love and hope in the future.
2007-03-05 21:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
These days, It's almost impossible to find someone with no scars from being mistreated. Sometimes, All it takes is a word, a simple indication that you will repeat the behavior of a past love, or friendship that left a scar to cause the one you care for to run for the hills. Impossibility is a tremendous word to throw into a pool that not only contains your life, but the lives of others. Sometimes, when someone is out to prove a point in a gentle fashion, it comes out in the worst way, un-intentionally. The worst words we can say are those that we wished we never had said to begin with. You can't take back pain caused by speaking or in violence. Forgiveness is one thing...memory erasure is yet another. Best wishes in your future endeavors pertaining to this matter you inquire upon.
2007-03-08 09:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
i am dealing with the same problem at the moment
I am trying as hard as I can to move on yet I can
their so many wonderful things abotu this man and our marriage but yet I can not pass the hurt
I am thinking that maybe I don't love him anought
and if that is true something is wrong with me
Because he ahs done everything that he possibly can for me to forgive him yet I can't
Nothing he does impress me
Instead I feel cold
Maybe time will make it better, but I feel like I don't want to waste my time
Good luck
2007-03-05 21:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, that's exactly right. You've fallen for a mentally ill person. You can forgive, but you will never forget those things, and sometimes you will ask yourself why your self-esteem is so low that you are still with this person. I personally think you should get out and then figure out why you are falling for mentally ill people, it will only cause you great pain and heartache in the end.
2007-03-05 21:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During heated arguments, a person looses his individuality ,hence do not give that much weight to the words sadi during a fight.
But of you come acrosss some said things ,where you find that you really need to improve ,do pay heed.
2007-03-05 21:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there were just words and no action yes i believe if you do love someone you should forget.words for some people come out of their moth with out thinking...life is to short to stop on the words he might of meant.
2007-03-05 21:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by silk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have found over the years that you women have selective memory and only remeber the things that they want ,you probaly said some horrible things yourself
2007-03-05 21:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did. i think it does just happens in a relationship. we all have a little 'martyr' side in every relationship we have.. especially when you really love the person.
2007-03-05 21:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋