I have had a girlfriend for over 5 yrs., but when I masturbate, I can only ejaculate if I'm thinking of guys (most of the time). I've been kissed by a couple of guys before (against my will), and thought it felt disgusting and awkward. However, this fuels me when I'm masturbating.
2007-03-05 20:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by Bob Smith 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know it's weird, but a lot of straight men do fantasize about other men when they masturbate, even though they would never want to be with them in real life. And, as we all know- sexual orientation is about who you want to sleep with in real life, not what you like in your fantasies. If you need to think about men in order to ejcaulate, well, that's odd, but it's not a problem, and definitely doesn't mean you're gay or bisexual. If your girlfriend and girls in general still do it for you in real life, you're straight, my friend.
You might find that this article, which discusses how and why some heterosexual men think about men when masturbating; it sheds a lot of light on the subject:
http://jackinworld.com/library/articles/strfant.html
I hope that helps you!
2007-03-06 12:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your heart and soul you know whether you are gay -bi - hom-,
Its not a matter of experience, the events that happen to you. You asking a question in which you have to deep down inside search for the truth in you. What is more important afterward is contending with the outcome of what ever you discovered.
Masturbation is only means of making love to yourself. Although, religious have preach against it, it's personal within you! You have a girl friend perhaps she can help you by masturbating for you(I don't mean this as a joke) and see how you feel and what are thinking doing the process. Don't get scare of who you are and your sexual preference.
God Bless
2007-03-05 21:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bob, you could be bisexual. You could be attracted to both sexes equally (50/50) or more likely you might be 40/60 or 60/40. Because you do this in private and have your "choice" of fantasy sexual objects and usually choose men, my guess is that your homoerotic tendencies are quite strong. But you don't sound like a homosexual fellow to me at all. My guess is that you are bisexual.
To tell us that you mainly masturbate while fantasizing about men is the key here.
2007-03-06 00:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the case, you just don't need to let it worry you. Don't feel like less of a man because you fantasize about it. Its a very common fantasy to have sexual relations with the same sex, though you may not actually feel the need to act on them.
2007-03-05 22:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by closetcoon_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are having so bisexual feelings. As long as you still enjoy sex with the girlfriend, but enoy mastrubating to the thought of guys, you are ay least bi
2007-03-06 02:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am gay and i never think of girls when i masturbate and have never kissed a girl.
2007-03-07 00:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a girlfriend but i like to jerk off over guys too....
im not gay tho i wouldnt do a guy just think bout it so no i dont think your a gay
2007-03-05 22:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by kingof kings 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your simply a homosexual. "Queers" are odd. Gays are homosexual. Dudes who **** thinking about dudes are gay...in my humble opinion.
2007-03-05 22:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are queer as folk!
2007-03-07 01:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋