I found out I was pregnant 3 days after my husband left for Iraq, and miscarried at 8 weeks. It has been since Feb 2006 that I miscarried, and now that he is back I just want to be pregnant. They say that you should just have fun with it and let it happen, not to think about it. But it has been something I have thought about for the past year. How do I not think about it?!?! I know there is no way anyone can really tell me what to do, but it is getting frustrating thinking about it all the time and everytime I feel a little different, I think...hmm, maybe I am pregnant. Anyone been through the same?
2007-03-05 20:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes I'm in pretty much the same situation. I miscarried in January at 7 weeks and was gutted. Now me and my fiancee are trying again and all i think about is having a baby, and getting pregnant. Its hard, but you just have to hang on in there. It will happen, and i know the feeling when you say about 'just letting it happen'. Its frustrating, but at the end of the day, you know you can fall pregnant so there's no worries there. Just relax. Work out when you ovulate, so when you r husband is home, u can do some baby-making! Good luck!
2007-03-05 20:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jade A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Art of Pregnant is to be natural. The more you think to get pregnant, the more it won't happen. God knows best and when. Your stress will lead to miscarriage. You have to eat right and rest right. Enjoy your love life with your husband. Tell him to make you happy and vise versa when you are together. Things will be better and cheer you up.
2007-03-06 04:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there. i would start taking prenatal vitamins now, and just have fun with baby making, don't put so much stress on it or it could take you longer to get pregnant. get a full blood work up and make sure you levels are all okay. the more you stress the more it takes a toll on your body. its known that if you are stress out about something it can make you ovulate late then you usually do.
2007-03-06 04:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by i love my sexy hubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will happen when the time is right. enjoy the time with your husband that you have now because who knows what the future will hold for you 2. talk to him about it and make sure you ob/gyn thinks its ok to try again and they say practice makes perfect.
2007-03-06 04:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by alice k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
took me 13 years, 5 miscarriages and a stillbirth to finally have my second child, trust me, you cant not think about it, even when you thinking about not thinking about it, you are still thinking about it!! lol
2007-03-06 04:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋