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I have recently realized, in my late 30's, that I am interested in dating women and not men, but I haven't actually been with a woman yet. My relationships with men have not been very successful, and I'd like to think it's because I have always been gay and I just didn't know it until now. However, I fear that I may have some commitment issues as well, and I don't want to transfer them to my potential lesbian relationships. I am curious to know how do relationships between two women differ from heterosexual relationshiops on an emotional level. Also, how do relationships among female friends who are also lesbians differ from relationships among straight female friends. I realize that there are various scenarios to consider, but all things being constant, what then?

2007-03-05 20:30:40 · 4 answers · asked by New C 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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At this stage in your life you might have some changes in your hormones that may confuse you a bit. Since you have never actually yet been with a woman------perhaps your body is reacting to an imbalance.Try taking a closer look at your nutritional needs and also please try lots of exercise. These things may very well help you get to where you need to be. Also please consider daily vitamins as well.

2007-03-05 20:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 1 0

Relationships are relationships whether it is a male/female, female/female, male/male. The dynamics of one type of relationship is not really all that different from any other. You may notice a difference in the type of role that you assume in your new relationships as compared to your old relationships however I think that your expectations in how you want to be treated will remain largely unchanged. Relationships between friends and lovers are of course different but at 30+ years you should have had at least a few friendships with other women and I think you will find that for the most part your understanding of those won't change much. As far as romantic relationships with other women I would point you back to your expectations as to how you want to be treated to understand the differences between the two types of relationships.

2007-03-06 04:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

people always want to generalize and put labels on things, but this really isn't gonna work. sexual orientation is just one small thing that makes up a person. every woman, whether straight, lesbian, or bi, will all have different values, different personalities, different priorities, etc.

you could suggest that females are more in touch with their emotional and feminine side, which is definitely a good thing.

overall, every relationship is going to be unique, so just go into it being open and honest and don't try to put on an act or play games.. be true to yourself and focus on friendship and communication.

2007-03-06 06:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0 0

You cant in simple terms magically substitute from directly to gay!!! It would not ensue like dat it relies upon on the way you have been born!!! yet da suitable answer i could provide u is to attempt relationship a guy yet while it would not paintings out for u den u have been never meant to be gay!! desire it helps!!!

2016-10-02 11:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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