wat r the characters of a libra are they strong at heart and how can they stop being irritating?????

Question

im a libra 22nd oct and im totally comfortable with myself except 4 the fact tht i find myself irritating at times wat can i do 2 change it??

i was born in the yr 1990 and am from india

Answer 1

Libra THE SCALES - the sign of Balance
Natural justice and the knowledge that the universe runs smoothly when there is balance is at the heart of the Libran persona. However, to get everything just right takes a certain amount of adjustment and effort. Libras are known for their ability to consider both sides and to bring together warring factions, since in Libra land the world is fully of happy contended people. Librans are liable to to adopt whatever approach is necessary to find that balance and can resort to some quite ruthless tactics at times. Think, 'iron hand in a velvet glove', to create harmony).

Get More from Life
You want to be loved but never fear from being controversial once you have discovered the truth.

Ideal Careers
Barrister, judge, diplomat, designer, beautician, interior decorator, designer, anything in personnel.

Advice for Partners & Friends
A good idea - keep the romance alive and the value of sharing.

Not so useful - getting jealous.

We love you at your Best ...
Libra is easy going, charming and pleasant, and will work hard at relationships, since relating is the key motivation for this sign. Consequently, Librans instinctively know how to be good hosts and put others at their ease. Chances are they will have more than the usual amount of knowledge about the arts, current affairs and politics, and will be the oil that sociability glides on. Compromise comes much easier than making a firm decision.

Charming, easy going, romantic, diplomatic, idealistic, refined, in love with love.

.... Difficult to Live With!
Coming to a decision! Librans believe that the world involves wrong or right decisions and choices, whereas in actual fact, decisions bring about different paths and consequences, not necessarily right or wrong, good or bad. Agonising over the smallest of concerns can get in the way and considering that some decisions have to be made on a daily basis means that this natural tendency has to be overcome. Accepting themselves for who they are will mean that although Librans love the idea of love, they need to love themselves first and treat themselves as they would their dearest friend.

Sun Signs You are most Compatible with
Aquarius - a marvellous match for love, fun & friendship.
Gemini - sublime.
Aries - opposites attract.
Scorpio - emotionally rewarding.
Taurus - very sensual.

Sun Signs You are not so Compatible with
Capricorn - don't bet on this one.
Cancer - very hard work.
Virgo - discordant.
Libra - indecisive, no leader, no followers!
Sagittarius - too flighty & light.

Your Opposite Sun Sign
is Aries

Libra is the lover of the Zodiac. She seeks complementary energy - partnership, equilibrium, balance, harmony, and above all, love. Libra takes pleasure in people, words, art and beauty. There are so many joys, wonders and ways of expression. She wants to experience them all! Maybe that is why she is constantly falling in love.

The opposite of Aries, who is on a quest to make her personal mark in the world, Libra is searching for connections with others. She attracts people and collects things because of her great fascination with everything she sees. She may seem acquisitive, or luxury loving, but she is merely fulfilling a deep need to appreciate the earth by gathering it close to herself.

Libra creates balance in her life by making comparisons. She spends a great deal of time weighing out options, opinions and possibilities. Like a judge, she must choose the best, and this is sometimes a challenge. The tendency to vacillate on the part of Libra is her famous, and seemingly endless exercise in discernment, but once she has chosen, she does so with a certainty she will strongly defend. To rush the Libra could result in a half-hearted, and possibly ill-fated decision on her part, thus opening the door to constant uncertainty.

Libra needs to be stimulated both mentally and sensually. She is just as fascinated with communication and debate as with earthly goods and pleasures. Libra wants others to feel comfortable and at ease. She is a charming hostess with impeccable taste and style, and seeks both natural and creative beauty in her surroundings.

When it comes to love, the Libra will be entirely devoted to her chosen one, showering him with all the joys of life she so cherishes. Libra needs companionship above all, and will work hard to make a harmonious partnership.

Born on the Libra/Scorpio Cusp
October 19 to October 23

If you are born on a Cusp, you will incorporate the energies of both Signs.

Libra is the seventh sign of the zodiac; Scorpio is the eighth. After Libra's intellectual exploration of other people, Scorpio's interest is in discovering other people's emotions and how they respond to the world around them. Scorpio is the sign of sex and death, the beginning and ending, and they explore these ideas from an emotional standpoint. Libra/Scorpios strive to create balance and harmony between self and other through investigation and probing. They are often strongly intuitive and penetrating. They have a need to be liked.

The astrological symbol of Libra is the Scales. Like the scales of justice, Librans are objective and just. They abhor unfairness and conflict, striving above all for peace; but at times they are easily deterred from their beliefs. Librans are able to see all sides of an argument, but as their mental scales sway back and forth, they may never find balance. The astrological symbol of Scorpio is the Scorpion. Like the mythical scorpion, those born under this sign tend to be strong-willed and wary of being controlled by others. In keeping with Libra's cardinal quality, Libra/Scorpios are diplomatic and cooperative; they are skilled at initiating group projects. They can be stubborn, refusing to give up when others have long since become bored and abandoned a project. Libra/Scorpios get things done when no one else thought it possible. In this way, the fixed quality of Scorpio is expressed. When Libra/Scorpios set goals for themselves, they are determined to succeed. They have their own agenda and work to achieve their desires.

Libra is ruled by the planet Venus. In ancient Roman mythology, Venus (and her Greek equivalent, Aphrodite) was the goddess of love, beauty and pleasure. She represented joy, happiness and appreciation of beautiful things. Scorpio is ruled by the planets Mars and Pluto. In ancient Roman mythology, Mars (and his Greek equivalent, Ares) was the god of war, and ancient astrologers assigned both Aries and Scorpio to this planet. Pluto (and his Greek equivalent, Hades) was the god of the underworld, and when the planet Pluto was discovered early in the 20th century, astrologers assigned Scorpio to it.

Libra/Scorpios are seductive and attractive, commanding and intense. Cultural awareness and a talkative nature help them shine in the social situations they so enjoy. The element associated with Libra is Air. The element associated with Scorpio is Water. Libra/Scorpios are skilled at communication and abstract reasoning, and their intelligence combines with their interest in others to become an intellectual exploration of those around them. They may repress their emotions, but underneath they are lusty and perceptive. Libra/Scorpios are motivated and loyal, but they are often misunderstood and may be seen as dictatorial or sarcastic. If they have an ulterior motive, they can be overbearing, but in a subtle, sly or manipulative way.

Libra/Scorpios are both mystical and scientific, a combination that makes them very aware of what is happening around them; they are a sign of great depth. If they aren't careful, though, their passionate nature may lead them into self-indulgence or compulsion. In their leisure time, Libra/Scorpios tend to have a definite lazy streak. However, this is barely perceptible because they also enjoy difficult pursuits that challenge them to excel, and they refuse to settle for being anything less than the best. They may have a particular affinity for activities that let them get out in nature.

In love relationships, Libra is playful, romantic and devoted. The great strength of the Libra/Scorpio-born is in their drive for peace and harmony and their determination to see things through to the end. Their skill at seeing all sides of a situation with great passion and strength makes them one of the most powerful characters of the zodiac.

Answer 2

Although the scales most obviously symbolise balance, the Libran is not always perfectly balanced. A set of weighing scales is rarely so, going up and down a lot of the time,and this is the case of people born under this sign. One moment the Libran will indeed be calm and balanced, but also you can be annoying, argumentative, stubborn, irritable, depressed and confused. You can be frustrating to others in your inconsistency. You seek harmony but can be prone to over-indulge in eating, drinking or sex. This over-doing it can be the biggest threat to your health so watch out for it. By turns you can be very industrious, then indolent and lazy, because you need to alternate your periods of frenetic activity with complete rest. Often it is as if you are two different people. Your emotions, high or low, are deep and rich. You shun exaggeration and hate embarrassing displays of violence, anger or passion. You love to weigh things up, to analyse and balance the pros and cons in your mind. This versus that, this way or the other? So you seem to others to be indecisive, although you probably deny it. Mostly you will be scrupulous and honest, not careless. You like to take your time deciding on the right course and get it right. At heart you are artistic and have a love of books and libraries.

This Year for you is: 5
The 5 vibration brings a desire for freedom of movement, speech, and thought. Freedom to follow wherever the 5 senses lead. Travel, adventure, education, and communication are likely interests at this time. Changes are constant and the freedom to move with these changes is very important. Love affairs, sex, indulgences of every kind are a part of this vibration. This is the time to explore and investigate. You are accumulating knowledge and experience for the rest of your journey.

Well that is it your star sign is Libra which is Balance and 22 is Master Builder which is broken down to 4 however by twice the power


I think you are Balance and you are not finding it much of a challenge lol

If I knew your year I could have gave you more detail on that one as well

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

I am born on 20th October and think it may have something to do with the Scorpio influence. It's only when I display my more Scorpio traits that I annoy myself. As a Libran you need balance and this is interfered with by Scorpio. You're on a cusp and you need to embrace the Scorpio in you.
We are very open to matter of the heart and at times can take things personally. We can fall in (and out) of love very easily. Don't worry you will learn to balance yourself.

Answer 4

I have been given dumped this summer season from a year and a a million/2 courting. Then the guy i began out seeing for the previous month is now picking regardless of if he needs to be with me reason i'm demanding whilst i'm below the impression of alcohol....dumb double whammy.

Answer 5

Libra is always at work trying to balance opposites. Like his Taurus sisters, Libra is ruled by the goddess of love, Venus. Venus is known for her attributes of beauty and harmony. Although Libra is definately a sign who searches for and aspires to peace, he can only come to that gentle state of being, to that greater sense of unity, through the resolution of conflict. It is for this reason that we see a basic duality in Libra's life. On one hand, Libra is ready to compromise at any cost (usually that cost is his own integrity). On the other hand, Libra is totally aware of conflict and works hard to find a solution to these differences so that everyone, including himself, may benefit. The wise Libran knows that it is only possible to have wholeness when each individual is aware of the other. This often happens as a result of a battle, successfully negotiated and truly resolved. Libra is the most relationship-orientated sign of the zodiac. As an air sign, Libra has to communicate, and what Libra likes to communicate most are messages from Venus. Venus rules the romantic impulse in all of us. She is the planet of love. Instead of arguments, Venus offers poetry and music. Libra has to beware his tendancy to put off or avoid what seems uncomfortable. he can be flighty and airy, denying personal responsibilities, preferring instead to wander through life with only temporary and superficial solutions to problems. Libra can develop a dreamlike attitude and may work hard at protecting his fairy castles, only to find that there are no real people inside them. Libra is the born romantic searching for the ideal love relationship. He will feel extremely guilty if he is the cause of any interpersonal disturbance. If such a conflict does happen, Libra will not feel 100% right with himself until that situation is resolved both to his own and the other person's satisfaction. Libra is always looking for a lover (and finding them too!). Once he is in such a relationship, Libra strives to make this union a perfect one. Yet perfection in a relationship takes two: two people, two visions, two life goals, and two dreams. Some Librans suffer from a philosophy that states: "Be cooperative and do things my way!" Libra wants to share but may have difficulties with the give and take. Libra wants to join but may find that its easier for another to join him than vise versa. All of these relationship complexities are just parts of the libran challenge in life. to give himself without losing himself in the giving. he may also have to learn to accept another person without manipulating that person into Libra's ideal image. Should Libra find himself in an unwanted relationship he frequently has a difficult time untangling himself. He is instinctively adverse to split-ups. Remember, Libra is the sign of marriage, it is definately not the sign of divorce. Libra is also the sign of social justice and the law. Libra is a visionary. His is a world of higher possibilities and refined values.. The majority of Librans have an instinct about correct conduct and right human relationships.Colors are green, bright yellow and white. Psycological characteristics and keywords = balanced, refined, artistic, friendly, sociable, gregarious, charming, diplomatic, indecisive, self-indulgent, co-dependent, flighty, superficial. Biggest virtue = Diplomacy. Biggest flaw = Indecisiveness. Spiritual impulse = The will to unity. Quality = cardinal.

Answer 6

I need to know your year and place of birth in order for me to tell you what you need to do to change that/