We have many memories together, although these memories are all rather heart-rending.
2007-03-05 18:47:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How touching. Speaking of touching, that is how she became poignant in the first place. Or, maybe it was in the second place or third place you two got together. Now, I've lost my place. Where was I? A question like this can pierce right through the soul. I know all about having memories together. I was a bouncer(speaking of bouncing) in a topless bar. I share many happy mammaries with my coworkers. You should do the right thing and make her Mrs. Mustard 100. It is better than being one out of a million. Then, after more poignant moments, you can hear the tiny pitter patter of Mustard 101, 102 103.... Being a member of the Mustard family I know you can weiner over.
2007-03-05 23:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok I got married when we found out I was pregnant, the only difference was we were together for 3 years before that and we have already had plans made out for a marriage...because we are and were in love...not because I was pregnant, that part just sped up the process. DO NOT MARRY HER UNLESS YOU ARE IN IT FOR LIFE!!!!! There is an 80% chance of getting a divorce nowadays when you get married. Think real hard on this. you can still be a wonderful daddy with or without marrying her...just keep that in mind.
2007-03-06 03:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Twinboymom22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask this question,it could mean you are not sure about your feelings for her.So I would say so: If you love her,maryy her..although I think you would have done this by now...Just for the kid,no,don`t marry her.Help her out with the kind after it will be born,but I don`t think marriage is an option,even if a child is involved.Neither of you will be happy in this marriage,it will be something of a compromise...and living your whole life like this....You don`t need to have "memories" togheter,you need to love her and her to love you.Period.
2007-03-06 03:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by NuclearKitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get married for the wrong reason. however, i love being married. i love being a parent. i have been married for 21 years and i was married at age 19. not pregnant. if you have been together for a long time you need to ask yourself why you have not already married. is it a good reason? if you are waiting for someone better, there isn't one. but if you do not want to marry this woman then being in a bad marriage is not necessarily best for your child. be there for her and the child. there is a reason why we cannot get pregnant alone.
2007-03-06 02:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by nettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she is pregnant does not mean marriage...That just leads to divorce down the line or a very unhappy life. Even if she wants to keep the baby you do not have to get married. Marriage is about love and being happy and making the other person happy...not fitting into society.
2007-03-06 02:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by UntamableSmurf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are seriously asking this question, then you really have to think doubly hard on where you life is going. Marriage is a long term commitment and not something you just get into and bail out later when you don't like it anymore.
2007-03-06 02:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decides to marry her just because she is pregnant, I would advice you give it a serious thought though.
Getting married is not a matter of a few days or months. We are talking about being together for a long, long time. And with this baby coming, both of you must understand wat respondibility is all about.
Good Luck
2007-03-06 03:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by aUDREy TTT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotcha! Another one hooked for the next 18+ years. If not his body at least his wallet. If you marry here at least you will half of a chance to see your offspring grow up.
2007-03-06 03:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!! You will make many more moving and heart-felt memories together!! Enjoy!
2007-03-06 03:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by gin_and_tonic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a pun gent, you must do the proper thing, of course. I would relish the opportunity to be godmother to the little squirt when he/she arrives. I've seen your girlfriend, by the way. She's one saucy dish. My condiments to your tastefulness.
2007-03-06 11:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋