I don't socialze at all at work, I hate my life sometimes and feel like my life is gong nowhere fast. On the other hand I am a socially active person with my close friends and just curious as to whats wrong with me.
2007-03-05 18:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by victor l 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it's depression,it has it's ups and downs.
i get really talkative and really excited about life but then an hour later i feel paralyzed !!!
if u have the same thing then it is depression.
2007-03-05 18:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! If you feel you are lacking something then find a solution to that problem. When one thing in your life is out of balance it doesn't mean your whole world is messed up. If you want to socialize at work then make an extra effort, pick one person and start to take little steps with them. Plus if you do not like your job, then you should get a new one. If you don't have any skills then go back to work. Nothing is static. Choose some future goals and work towards them. Completing goals give you an endorphine rush. Read the book below, it will change your life.
2007-03-05 19:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by blameless7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual to not want to socialize at work. In some ways, it's actually healthy to keep your social and work life separate. When you make friends with your co-workers then you get into an argument, it makes for a tense office environment. So I usually mind my own business and keep the two separate. You have a healthy social life with your friends, which is important. You need a supportive structure that you can turn to in times of stress and loneliness. I don't think anything is wrong with you. Everybody hates their life sometimes and wishes things were different from time to time. Clinical depression is much different than the occasional "blues", which is what most of us get from time to time. You'll know clinical depression by the following:
Extreme tiredness, over or under eating, headaches/body aches, crying frequently, loss of interest in hobbies, loss of interest in socializing with friends, over sleeping or not sleeping very much, thoughts of suicide or suicidal gestures/attempts, self-medicating with alcohol and/or drugs, inattention to personal hygiene, and hopelessness. The fact that you're still social with your friends doesn't say that you're clinically depressed. As far as you feeling your life is going nowhere fast, maybe you can consult with a job coach or life coach. They can help you map out goals to set and reach that will bring you fulfillment. If you have any family issues that are bringing stress, maybe seek out a good therapist that you feel comfortable with. You can learn stress management techniques that can help. Good luck to you!
2007-03-05 18:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Gayle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem really stale to me, like you don't do a lot of anything or anything really excites you. My daughter is in her late teens and tells me about the boys she meets and if they are fired up for Jesus or not. She is really pretty, many companies asked her to model swimsuits but she turned them down, she wants to be a journalist. We have intstilled in her the Word of God and she is excited about that. She isn't into guys when they aren't into youth group like she is.
I hope someone invites you to a Bible study or better yet, just go to church on your own to meet dynamic people making a difference for God.
I challenge you.....if you don't meet someone who is not into God at the church you go to, then move to another church......I have done so, just go to different ones untli you start feeling God during the sermon. You will know when you feel God.
God is the only uplifters of our souls. I spent seven years as a single mom and no man could ever help me in that area.
2007-03-05 18:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your life is just too boring? You need to find something in life that YOU enjoy doing and just DO it. Focus more on getting to the bottom of your problem and fixing it don't just feel sorry for yourself for not liking your life.
I'm sure that once you find what you need your whole life will get better!
2007-03-05 18:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by xXCrystalXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have friends and sociolize with them, so more than likely, you are either shy or you are very picky in who you consider friends -- and that is fine. There are lots of people who have tons of acquaintences, but NO real friends. I think you probably just set high standards and that is usually a good thing !!!
2007-03-05 18:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by BARBIE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty normal to me But, who am I. God Bless You and keep on fighting the good fight!
2007-03-05 18:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depressed or you are choosy when it comes to friends or you just don't trust anyone at your work to socialise with em.
2007-03-05 18:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to scream.......you need to know that you are valued and that you are the only one who can change your attitude......just takes willpower.....just get mad dammit, MAD!
2007-03-05 18:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Or what?
2007-03-05 18:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Speedy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋