I want a divorce but I don't know how to go about it, I still love him and I don't wanna hurt him, but I can't stay with him anymore... What do I do?
2007-03-05 18:42:43 · 45 answers · asked by afairybabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-05 18:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you said that you love him but you not want stay with him I don't know what is the cause . I am not want to any relationship end like this way .Divorce is not solve your problem because you still love him . you still not happy with any other. At first you think how to recover the gap between you and your husband. Give him some attractive surprising gift and give some really enjoyable moments. you love him lot more than earlier.Love is possible anything .I hope love makes your journey more easier and full of happiness and your husband loves you lot.
2007-03-05 19:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by nil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the reason why you can't stay with him, tell him how you feel. Maybe you have hit a stagnant patch where things have become predictable. That's when you should start having some fun. Change up the scenery, try new things in the bedroom, find a hobby both of you can share.
If it's a divorce you want, contact a lawyer.
2007-03-05 18:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by fatcatkeepers 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are confused. Actually u love him. Study religion. Do not at all hurt him. Do not go for divorce. U both ask each other to forgive & make a new beginning to live together. Ask a sincere lawyer or religious scholar or a reliable good social worker.
2007-03-05 23:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why do u wnt to divorce him? Does he misbehave with u or is there any other problem with him or you yourself?
I think u shld take a break n have some patience to get the things clear to u n ur husband. This is a very important decision of ur life n not a minor thing. U shld handle it very carefully.
And before taking any decision u shld consult ur heart coz it alone can exactly tell u that u shld take this step or not. Just find out what ur heart says, follow ur intuition, ask GOD about this n have faith in whatever decision HE takes.
GOD Bless!
2007-03-05 18:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How come your question started with I don't think I love my husband and then you tell us you still love him. Sounds like you are a little confused, perhaps marriage guidance may help. You did not mention if there are any children in the marriage, if so think hard before you head for the divorce courts.
2007-03-05 18:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by judles 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really do think anytime we completely become one with another person, we know in the back of our minds it's a risk. It's always a risk. Obviously, When it comes down to it; It hurts now. Time heals all woes. The worst thing you can do to the man you love is pretend to his face that he's the one. It's unfair to you, and it's unfair to him. Divorce is a tough thing to get through. Sometimes it turns ugly, but i think if you approach this situation with the love and respect you seem to have, it can go smoothly.
2007-03-05 18:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by this_rare_eclipse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is to be honest & truthfull with yourself as well asyou Husband &* if you have childeren you must think of them & also consider them most of all.
If you do not then you'll hurt them emotionaly in what can scare them to the points of loads of Phyciatry aka Counceling for not only them to where you could be pulled it to it as well as the father as well.
That in it self is more money then anyone in the middle class etc can even afford.
Plus you may not see any changes for many years in what you may be at fault for years to come and that they do not want to do nore do you want to have happen I know.
I'd have to say that if you are having trouble with your marrage then go to marrage counceling in time you may see a change thus if you do not in say a number of moths or years or what ever you feell and he feels comfortable with thus at the same time consider the childeren through it all. And if you & your husband still feel that you & he should be divorced then go through with it thus agree on the child support payments etc with no hesatation etc along with many other things such as belongings etc.
2007-03-05 19:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Peace Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say talk to your husband let him know how you feel. When you said I do it was a commitment that you made with him. Its hard to say what you should do. Ask yourself a few ? like why do I want a divorce, is he abusive, do I just need more attention and affection, and have I giving our marriage my all and tried to make it work?. You really need to discuss it with him and go from there. If you have no children its really easy to get a divorce.
2007-03-05 18:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Priceless 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To answer your question:
I want a divorce but I don't know how to go about it,
GO FIND A LAWYER.
I still love him and I don't wanna hurt him, but I can't stay with him anymore...
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO BLUFF. ASK YOURSELF WHY YOU MARRY HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE.
What do I do?
SEE A DOCTOR WHO CAN HELP YOU STRAIGHTEN OUT YOUR THINKING!!
2007-03-05 19:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by aUDREy TTT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irrespective of ur love and hatred with him u have already hurt him and ur self a lot, so come out of the trauma and enjoy urself and see the things in everybody's perspective and try to do things the way u have wanted and revive ur old hobbies,thoughts and see the changes they all bring in u and ur relationship.
Nobody can force anybody in an relationship, so just chill follow ur gut feelings and give ur best and still if it does'nt work out then u r'nt meant to be together.
2007-03-05 19:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋