Ok well first of all,I'm not doing this to be disgusting or rude.I just want other people's opinions,and to become more educated on it, without publically embarrassing myself.So please no negativity
Ok well the reason I'm asking this is,I'm soon to be married in a week.We have dicided to wait to have sex until we were married. He is uncircumcised,and debating getting circumcised.Anyway my questions are:
(for women):Which do you prefer more,a circumcised or uncircumcised man? I've heard it actually feels different. Are you satisfied with the way your man is,honestly? Which do you think is better?
(For men):those of you who have been both,has it lost pleasure or feeling?[I've heard it does] And which is better for sex and a sex life?
2007-03-05 18:14:11 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think he should not get circumcised. It is completely uneccessary and will be very painful at this point in his life.
I have had both circumcised and uncircumcised, and it is not that much of a difference (for the girl). Plus, being a virgin, it will not matter which is "better" because he is hopefully the only penis you will ever try!
add: uncircumcised will only smell weird if he does not wash himself properly.
2007-03-05 18:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is some goood advice for you!!!
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4. Remember that it is ok to do things differently (e.g. there is more than one way to peel a potato or fold the laundry).
5. Always make time for the two of you.
6. Marry someone that you enjoy listening and talking to.
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Good luck.
2007-03-05 18:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me i do not like uncut. they tend to smell if not taken care of, it covers the best part of the whole thing ( the head) and it looks gross. that is just my opinion. i have been with both and cut is better
2007-03-05 18:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uncut smells bad and is really gross looking. I didn't notice a difference in feeling between cut and uncut.
2007-03-05 18:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by babydragonspawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your gonna get any better advice than free lanc;s
well done mate
that should be worth 10 points
2007-03-05 21:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by paul R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. mind is better for both
2007-03-05 18:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋