Like when we wake up in the morning and i have no makeup on and know i look soo bad...i feel so self concious...I know its like if he loves me it doesnt matter but its not that its just my own insecurities. Any advice? Pleasee :)
2007-03-05 18:11:38 · 12 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
oh blah blah your bf will love you no matter what... oh c'mon people. that doesn't solve her problem. The best way to do it is to take care of your skin so that it is fresh, hydrated, clean and natural. Once you feel your skin is those things then u wont care about make-up. Thats means LOTS and LOTS of water, moisturise ALWAYS and ALWAYS and cleanse like no 2moro. Trust me. Once I started taking an interest in actually cleaning up the canvas i work with then i realised that the less make-up I had on the better, cos my skin was doing the trick for me.
Hope this helps ;)
2007-03-06 01:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you already post this question? I'm not trying to be rude, I was Just asking?
I don't think there's any advice to give you other then to say it's kinda like the first day of school and you act shy and don't speak to anybody but after a while you meet people and make friends and then you wonder why you were so shy in the first place.
2007-03-06 02:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same insecurity around my boyfriend when we first met. Before I'd go see him everyday I'd be sure to touch up whatever needed touching up. After a few months he asked me to take my make-up off so he could see me without it. It took some convincing but I finally agreed and he said I look better without it (as cliche' as that sounds). Most of my closest friends have never seen me without make-up! It takes a while but you will get comfortable enough to be around him without make-up.
2007-03-06 09:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope my answer helps, really!!! I don't believe it has to do anything with confidence in the first place. I think your mesmerized at the fact that you are with him and want to look perfect for him. I still take care of myself after 6yrs, (2 dating and 4 married). Good for you!!! Your true one will love you for who you are, but they also love the fact that after so many yrs. we still look perfect for them. At least I know my husband appreciated that when he comes home, I'm not still on pajamas! Anyway, I would recommend (Rare minerals skin revival treatment $60). PRICEY, but it will do wonders and you are literally sleeping with a foundation treatment that actually helps you skin. If this is a too pricey for you try adding a little of foundation into your night moisturizer. It helps if the foundation is mattifying and non-comedogenic (meaning that it does not clog pores).
2007-03-06 05:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, then you shouldn't care about how you look. He likes you for you, not how much makeup you put on. Anyways, research shows that guys like girls without makeup more, I don't know why, but they do! So don't worry.
2007-03-06 02:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by DookieCookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must accept and love yourself the way
you are and don't worry about the others and
I think you should appear and show yourself
to your boyfriend without any make up sometimes to let him know what he sees,what
He'll get.that's if you're looking for longer
relationship.
Good luck
2007-03-06 02:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by massimo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is the opposite! I am only allowed to like her when she is NOT wearing makeup! She told me she has isues because she is insecure and thinks I only like her with makeup on! Your boyfriend is lucky he is allowed to like you when you are wearing makeup.
2007-03-06 10:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Shironeko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you dunno but i'm sure ur bf likes you MORE without make up. coz alot of my galfriends' boyfriends (including mine) are insisting that there's no need for us to put make up on. and frankly speaking i dont think much advice from us wld help you to be more comfortable w/o make up in front of him. it's an emotional barrier you have to make it across yourself. just remember this, putting in effort to look good for your bf is good. but being obssessed with it and fearing to face him w/o make up is bad.
good luck, girl!
2007-03-06 08:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ori-Hime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have your own self-confidence issues to deal with.
last thing you need is a boyfriend, if you cannot be comfortable in your own skin w/o makeup..
2007-03-06 02:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by m34tba11 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
work on your selfsteem.... you cannot go with make up on Everywhere!!!... eventually you'll have to face him with just your natural face (and it won't be only onced or twice).... you don't need a mask to make him, or anyone else for that matter like you!
2007-03-06 13:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋