Like when we wake up in the morning and i have no makaeup on and look a mess i feel so self concious and uncomfortable any advice???
2007-03-05 17:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
well, honestly sooner or later he is bound to see you without makeup. if you guys are really serious then he will probably see it soon. its the same thing as being too embarrassed to tell your boyfriend you have to go to the bathroom. these things are very normal and natural. if he can't accept the real you then maybe you should sit down and talk. if you however feel very uncomfortable without makeup that means you are only showing him what he wants to see. i have a boyfriend of 2 years. we started out as friends so all our rugged and not so clean traits are already known. we are both very comfortable with ourselves. we are so comfortable with each other we pass gas with ease around each other, make races to get to the bathroom...i'm not saying that you should be gross like me and my boyfriend are but i'm just saying you have to show your true self. you are acting too much like a tailor made girlfriend who is supposed to look good all the time. thats only in the movies. this is real life. you will find out if you are really meant for each other through open-ness, and loyalty. if hes still the same after seeing you without makeup then congratulations, you made it to the next level of your relationship. you have to be comfortable and secure when you are with him no matter what circumstance. thats why the two of you got together in the first place right..not because he's cute or your cute or not because of sex but the feeling that you get when you are together. remember everything doesn't have to be so ideal. whenever i am with my boyfriend i feel pretty anyway! just keep it real! good luck!
2007-03-05 18:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by painintheneck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i used to feel like that too but then i realized he's seen me in the morning after i was too lazy to take off my makeup and had it smeared all over my face, so i'm sure he prefers me with no makeup to that :P
why do you feel uncomfortable without it on? do you have blemishes? i know if i have a zit i feel a lot more uncomfortable without it, maybe go see the dermatologist so your skin looks great and he won't notice you aren't wearing makeup :)
he might feel a bit uncomfortable in the morning too! maybe he's worried he has morning breathe or a major cowlick or his stubble is uneven and looks stupid! so don't worry about it, just enjoy waking up to him in the morning and knowing you both look like crap and love each other anyways :P
2007-03-06 02:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Pollywolly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend really loves you, what you look like in the mornigs should not bother him. If he makes a comment about it say something like "Well I am sorry my face isn't on yet. My skin needs to breathe overnight to stay healthy you know." If he can't accept that you don't look good in the morning, then break up with him. He should be able to accept you and how you look regardless if you wear makeup or not.
2007-03-06 02:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyes25162 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Know what you mean girl. Myself I used to worry all the time waking up and not letting my boyfriend see me. So, I just started the habit of cleansing, my face and applying my makeup before I went to bed. But very little, only concealer,powder,lipliner,eyeliner. over lid only.Putting to much makeup at night,only creases and looks oily,smeared.Through the night when it was washroom time, I apply more powder. Morning time I looked good. But usually men are to tired, to notice that you are not at your best. If he decides to stay till morning,he likes how you look either way. Don't worry about it, He wants you thats why he's there in the morning.
2007-03-06 02:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by lipstick631 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is your issue and has little to do with your boyfriend. Some suggestions to freshen your skin without make up include: waxing, facials, toned moisturizers, and lip gloss. None of these involve make-up, but all will help bring out your natural skin color.
2007-03-06 02:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel like that. But he keeps saying I look beautiful to him. You have to remember - it's the love in his eyes that makes you beautiful and loved (makeup or no makeup)
2007-03-06 02:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Little Witchy Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start to slowly decrease the amount of makeup you wear, until you see him one day without any makeup at all. That way you're kind of easing into it.
2007-03-06 01:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know i used to tell my ex she looked like a monkey's *** in the morning and she had to put on makeup before i open my eyes. that lasted for 3 weeks because i told her i can't wake up in the morning anymore looking at something that ugly.
2007-03-06 01:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hunn......if he truely loves you and wants to be with you he will love you for you and not what you look like with or with out makeup so try your hardest to give up the need to try and do that .
2007-03-06 01:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by lady d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you aren't the only one trust me you'll get use to it.
2007-03-06 01:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋