I honestly am not 100% sure what i wanted, i thought that if i left everything behind, started over and got away from my current "life" that i could start over and everything would start to look up. But my friend asked me what i honestly expected to change, im not sure. It just i feels like i dont have anyone real to me, not any1 close, family just disconnected, i have no ties where i am. I feel like everyday i stay, im just gunna get stuck here. I just think if i leave and start over, things can start to get better? iono.. any1 out there who started over? just got away? advice? I just dont know what to do anymore
2007-03-05 17:42:28 · 4 answers · asked by aces_wild87 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
im 19, i know im young, but i know what i want in life, and i know the way i feel right now will never change. i feel so disconnected from my family and the few close friends i have, the first one i loved just left me, i have nothing. i just feel like i have nothing and no1 to turn too, i just have myself right now and i feel like i just need to get out.
2007-03-05 17:59:46 · update #1
It is hard to say....it is clear to me that you are feeling sad &/or disappointed. What is your age...do you go to school or do you work? I am under the impression that you have not left??!
Really the ball is in your court...you are the ONLY one who is in charge and responsible with your satisfaction with life.
I do suggest that before you go...make a few clear cuts goals and decisions of what you want out of your life..then follow through to the best of your ability. If you should go and have no idea what it is that your after you may end up feeling unsatisfied and potentially worse than you do now.
Remember at the end of the day...you are the only person who will fulfill your ideals.
2007-03-05 17:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't run from a problem or from pain. The best thing to do is to just try to get some help accepting the situation that you are involved in. The person that you lost if it was a break up, should not control your problems and thoughts. If you are only 19 then you have a whole life ahead of you. What seems like the end of the world right now will be something that you will look back on later and probably see how it was for the best.
2007-03-06 07:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya. I have been a runaway my whole life, too. Life is what you make of it; or so I hear. I hope you get the courage to face that which is so terrifying, maybe you should pray. It helps me. I asked God to show me. My answer? That I had to leave, for my own good, and that's not bad. No looking back. If it's time to move on,it's time to grow. Ive realized that the life I left, ( everytime I left) was not worth having. I am a better person. I am closer to God. People might call it running away-I call it knowing when to fold your cards. Good Luck to you!!!!
2007-03-06 01:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need do sit down and write a list of what you want to change and one by one acheive your goals, to me you seem lost, but your not alone, i hope every thing turns out well, if you follow your heart, you will have no regrets just lessons learned, and i'm sure everything will turn out for the best. good luck.
2007-03-06 01:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by bonni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋