I feel I am always alone. I'm 26 and still live with my parents whom I have resposibility with. I've had a bf for a month that was when I was 20 now, no one even dared to court me. I feel so upset. Well my friends really look pretty than I am. How can I find one whom I can really make me happy? Is it the end of the world for me?
2007-03-05 17:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by chiz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey! thanks everyone every word help me a lot!
2007-03-05 17:52:53 · update #1
Dear cheetah,
You seem to be very angry with someone.
Well......you feel lonely. Why don't you engage yourself in something interesting? Is bf so important that you think its the end of the world?
Dear.... you have frnds with you. You have parents with you. You are so lucky!!
Cool down....think about it. If you want new frnds, chat online with someone.
You are 26, I am 26. Well .............. I think there is so much in life to give us.
Have interests like adventuring!!
The best way not to feel lonely is to smile at the start of a day. Go to bath, and feel fresh.
You will feel so different
So... hey miss! lonely ....... you are nomore lonely. Enjoy your life
Hope this would work for you
Best of luck!!
2007-03-05 17:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, it's good to enjoy your youth. Don't rush at having a relationship, the more experience the better right? Don't think that you're not pretty coz the guy who is gonna be right for you will think otherwise. i believe that you're a great person but really introverted that's why guys back off. show them the great person you are and they'll be drawn to you! wait for that right one, patience has it's rewards! believe that you ARE worth it and always remember no matter what others say that you are and can be beautiful.:)
2007-03-05 18:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by <Xariel the Stray> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said you are with your parents, then you are not alone, they love you and you love them also,, you have friends... i think you should wait for your prince charming to come your way, dont rush things up, you may tend to miss things that you are looking for. just enjoy being single coz life will be very much different when you enter marriage., try to be contented with what you have now and i think if there is a will to be happy then there is a way.
2007-03-05 17:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by anne raqsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, first you should get some self-esteem. maybe take yoga or something to increase the release of your endorphins. then you should probably move out of your parents house and maybe just go to events like hockey games or something where there are a lot of people and just start talking to someone you think you might become attracted to.. who knows, you might meet the guy for you
2007-03-05 17:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by YourSummerObsession 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. 1 out of 5 people around you have herpes. Unwanted pregnancy. More STDs and AIDs. Relationship mental and physical abuse. Marriage lasting an average of 3 years. Being single doesn't sound that bad anymore does it?
2007-03-05 17:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should focus on making yourself happy rather then finding someone.
If you are a happy person you will naturally attract people to you....
It really does work so give it a try!
All the best to you.
2007-03-05 19:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to have some confidence and believe in yourself. You cant sit and wait for your "man" to come you have to get out there and mingle with people, get into relationships and you will find them. I'm in a very similar situation, just get out there girl your pretty inside and out! go get what you want girl.
2007-03-05 17:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Morbiddoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never the end until you decide it is. Move into an apartment and whatever you do, don't just wait doing nothing because logically that'll get you nowhere.
2007-03-05 17:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...only 26 and complaining. Think of others who r 36 and still patient! GOD has plans 4 evryone. dun wrry
2007-03-05 17:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by kuti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try online dating. You can find someone who is compatable. And I think they set it up so you don't have to ask him out and vs versa. Asking someone out can be akward for some people. You may have someone now too who likes you, but is too shy to ask you out.
2007-03-05 17:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋