well my aunt just died today & i cant stop crying what can i do to cope with death!?
2007-03-05 17:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by Princessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Cry your eyes out, then remember the good times and remind yourself that this is part of life.
Surround yourself with lots of people that you care about also!!!
2007-03-05 17:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old age answer still rings true today... time heals all wounds. It might not heal them 100% but it definately helps. For now, just cry and let it out. Death of a loved one is not easy for even the strongest souls to cope with. Peace
2007-03-06 01:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by jbhurst01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing. Crying is essential.
Experiencing death is part of the human experience.
Sometimes talking about the person helps. Or looking at pictures.
You might have times when you just block out the pain, which is ok too for awhile.
And spend time remembering the good things and what she meant to you.
2007-03-06 02:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to cope with the loss of a loved one. No one can tell you exactly what to do. However, I can tell you that crying is good, however your Aunt would not want you to make yourself sick by continuing. She would want you to miss her, but go on with your life. And it will be hard for some time, but think of the good things about her and celebrate her life, not her loss.
2007-03-06 01:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many books written to help you understand death and dying. Crying is also a way of coping. You do need to have that period of morning where you will be sad and cry. Its normal and healthy to do that.
2007-03-06 01:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by chicklette0008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to lose someone that you love, and everyone grieves for their love ones. just know they might not be there in person but they will always be there in your heart. as time goes by it will ease up. cry and let it out, don't keep that in. sorry for your lost.
2007-03-06 01:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray it helps alot!!!!!
we may lose someone we care so much but doesnt meant we have to stop living
take time to mourn and let go :)
2007-03-06 01:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by angelgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE AROUND YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY SOMETIMES IT'S GOOD TO BE BY YOURSELF IT'S OKAY TO CRY LET OUT TALK IT OUT IT'S NORMAL IT ALL TAKES TIME
2007-03-06 01:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find comfort in God and with other family.
2007-03-07 21:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieve as much as you want. that will remove the pain.
2007-03-06 01:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋