2007-03-05 17:02:17 · 6 answers · asked by Alice S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What would make it enjoyable for you? Talk to him openly about things that excite you. I'm sure that he'd love to try something new instead of the same old same old!
2007-03-05 17:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all the time. Congratulations for having some concern for your poor husband and for your relationship. Many women just blow it off as part of growing older and insist that their husbands deal with it.
There are a number of ways that you can improve the way you feel about sex with your husband. But, ultimately, it may very well be that you are just not into sex anymore. If your husband is, communicate, communicate, communicate. Try to be as compassionate as possible and help him with his needs. Make it abundantly clear that you love him and care about him and that your lack of enthusiasm for sex has nothing to do with him as a lover. Male egos are very fragile and easily broken. Be kind.
You might also see a doctor or endocrinologist to see if there has been some organic change that can be corrected. But, don't obsess over it. Our bodies change over time. Your husband will eventually catch up with you because most guys lose their interest in sex, as well.
Love, communication, and friendship are the keys. Good luck.
2007-03-06 01:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You not enjoying doesn't make sex bad for him...sure it would be mutual satisfaction if you would enjoy it some. I suggest you get professional help because you have intimacy issues and are missing out on the best part of your relationship with your husband...
2007-03-06 01:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you enjoying sex with your husband? Find out what the problem is, try to fix it, and be the best wife to him you can be!
Maybe the problem is him, don't automatically think there is something wrong with you. Maybe you aren't liking his techniques, if so, help him develop new ones.
2007-03-06 09:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to talk to ur husband about it
ask his fantasies and tell him what you like more in making love
being married doesn't meant you have to stop exploring all the possibilities
its more like having the freedom to explore everything together :)
2007-03-06 01:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by angelgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is in your mind, you obvisoly have decided that he is not worthy
2007-03-06 01:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋