I'm the only girlfriend in his life,about 6 month ago we discussed about marriage but about 2 month later he cheated onme but after 3 month I forgave him , after that he said that he did that becouse he wanted to enjoy the sweet days of youth ,and he belive that after marrigae he should not do anything and he swear that will never do it again.now we decide to get married....but I'm afraid that he cheat on me again? he is 26 now do you think that is logical to trust him
2007-03-05 16:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by pariya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The choice is yours to make, but personally, I wouldn't trust someone who did that to me. Really, what is so significant about being 26 that suddenly made him realize that his "sweet days of youth" are over?
2007-03-05 17:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's get this straight - he talks marriage then cheats on you and you want to know if you think it's logical to trust him?
I would have to say "NO".
For him to make the excuse that he needed to do it because it would be wrong for him to do it after marriage is very lame.
How many times has he told you he loved you before he cheated? Is a person that says he loves you and cheats trustworthy? He's been with you for 6 years now and he still needs to cheat - There are couples that get divorced in less than six years for the same reason. I think if you were smart you'd find someone a whole lot more honest and trustworthy to marry.
2007-03-06 01:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see no reason to trust him. 6 years of a good relationship and he pisses all over it because he wanted to "enjoy the sweet days of youth". Let him enjoy those days alone (or what is left of them). Move on!
2007-03-06 01:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"the sweet days of youth"!!!! men at 50 cheat whats his excuse then "just trying the sweet youth".honestly...if it was me he would be gone...me and my husband have talked about cheating, and I know if one of us did that...especially all that time together...we would leave...you say you forgave him...great, but can you forget..can you let him go out with his boys and feel comfortable with it? good luck
2007-03-06 01:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To trust him or not has to be YOUR deicsiion alone. Since no one here on this board knows him (or you for that matter) we have no idea what is inside his heart. You SHOULD know him better than we do...if you don't well you have to figure this one out for yourself.
2007-03-06 01:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheate on you. then he will do the same thing when he feel
the urge to, if mariage is what you want then reallly look hard
at this before you make a mistake.
2007-03-06 01:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that the two of you go to couples counsuling before you get married. Don't have any what if's before you get married.
2007-03-06 01:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..do not trust him..men are never to be trusted..although they need u more than u need them..but still..he will definately cheat u again..
2007-03-06 01:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by deadmau5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater
it will happen again
2007-03-06 01:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good call it's something for you to work on.
2007-03-06 01:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋