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Well im bi-sexual and i want to tell one of my close friends, i was going to tell her last night but i chicken'd out. So heres kinda how it went, i IM'ed her just normally like hi, whats up...and then i said that i was watching a show with gay people in it and i said it was gross, so she was like ok, then i asked her if she thought it was gross, she said no, because she has two bi friends. So i got exited then because i felt i could deff, trust her. But i didnt tell her because i got to nervouse....ANY TIP, ADVICE??? please!

2007-03-05 16:50:36 · 7 answers · asked by The Con 5 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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2007-03-05 16:55:24 · update #1

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sounds like she is the perfect person to tell first! you should just tell her without thinking about it too much cuz you'll just keep talkign yourself out of it. i think it will turn out fine, good luck:)

2007-03-05 16:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I don't understand why you said it was gross. Just to see how she felt? You could have done it a different way, if so.

I think you should tell her, since she's accepting. Just IM her, or call her, or tell her in person, if that's what you want. Say, "I have something to tell you," at first, so you can't chicken out again. And then just do it. It's a huge relief.

2007-03-05 16:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You definitely shouldn't worry sweetie, she doesn't think it's gross and she also has other friends that are bi. So why are you so afraid, just tell her! She seems like a sincere caring friend if she has remained friends with other bisexual people.
Let it out and you'll feel better :)
Good luck.

2007-03-05 17:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because this can be one of the most personal decisions of your life (believe me, it was for me), I hope that you tell somebody you know that you can really, deeply trust, somebody who loves and respects you. It was that way for me, and my friend's strength helped me believe in myself. Good luck.

2007-03-09 15:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by mpst63 4 · 0 0

DUDE! come on! shes a freaggin' female! you KNOW she'll be accepting! you KNOW she'll love you more. .. ugh. i hate women..
but yeah... you need not be nervous AT ALL. just casually say you want to screw some guy at your school... then she'll say- oh. i know. i want him to screw me, too! heheehehehehe.. i didnt know you were gay. thats sooooooooooooo coool! --and then you'll sa-- no, im not gay. im bi. heheehhe.. i know! its soooooo cool! who eles would you want to let screw you? ----
see. it'll go JUST like that. no worries!

2007-03-05 17:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by louie 4 · 0 0

write her an e-mail and tell her your thoughts.. you won't feel as nervous or pressured as you are on live chatting.. all you gotta do is click that send button and you will feel a sigh of relief..

2007-03-05 17:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0 0

Just open your door and say it loud,period. No more pretending.

2007-03-05 17:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by javo 3 · 0 0

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