I have a problem here...
My hubby and i aren't having sex for 2 solid months i do not know wat is wrong since i have my gerl that was last 2 years our sex life has worsen since then
I am a hyperactive kind of sex person well you know.... i can have sex everyday but the problem is my hubby always says he is tired how do i know if its a lame excuse or there is something worng with him or maybe me....
He loves BJ and when i do it sometimes he can't control am i too hasty or i don't know wat is wrong please do help me....?????
2007-03-05 16:22:12 · 13 answers · asked by mirrah1303 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesnt sound like you are the problem, many men, me included, would love a wife with a sex drive like you. There could be several reasons for his actions, the worse of which is if he is having an affair. The fact he cannot control himself and finishes right away makes me think he is not having an affair. You may want to try to slow things down, lots of foreplay without him actually finishing.
He could be stressed about something and this can cause a man to lose interest in sex. The best thing is to talk to him, tell him how you are feeling, ask him what is bothering him or if you are doing anything wrong. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-03-05 16:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men whose are not active in sex, but a marriage without sex is never complete, it's also very unfair to the other party. He do still have sexual desire, as he loves BJ. He could be too tire for sex for 2 months, but if this continues, you should put thing on the table, ask him for the reason, a couple should be frank to each other, especially on sexual contact.
2007-03-05 17:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very common nowadays... I do have a friend who had similar problem like you. Her hubby always said tired or moody when she asked for sex. Moreover, she's the high sexual type of girl too... Before that, they had sex oftenly, and since her 1st baby girl, its seems goes down... In the end, she had an affair... but without her husband knowledge... My advise is... have a nice talk with him, and find out what had went wrong...
2007-03-05 17:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a results of frequency, you could properly be hectic the exterior interior your vagina, like an 'indian burn'. you ought to use lube. If that would not help, you have an STD. whether you think of you're the two sparkling, odds are you at the instant are not (permit's be sensible). the two way, a visit to the gynecologist could be a solid thought in case you could arise with the money for it or have coverage. you additionally can bypass to planned parenthood or someplace like that and do STD checking out and get different questions responded.
2016-10-02 11:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband went 2 months without sex I would know for a fact that he is cheating if it wasn't a medical condition!
2007-03-09 15:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by LuvnLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am just like you but in the opposite way, I can have sex everyday, but my wife just doesn't want to. she just lets me do it, because I need it once in a while. she would just stay motionless while I do it. it's boring. I guess it is individual. each person have a different level of sex drive. I just have to live with it.
2007-03-05 17:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by parry ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he medically well? How old is he? Diabetes, obesity, hypertension, etc.--all contribute to a man's lack of interest. Have him pay a vist to the doctor to rule that out first and take it from there.
2007-03-05 17:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be quite bothered with work or other issues. Find a nice time to talk through your concern.
2007-03-09 01:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by LucKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try something romatic. wear sexy outfits, use whip cream cook his favorite dinner try dirty dancing really try to find out what turns him on example a fanatsy dressing up as someone
2007-03-05 16:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by varley s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him why there's been a decline in your sex life. Tell him that you want honest answers.
2007-03-05 16:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋